What's good brothers, tonight was the best night I have had in a long time. I can't believe it, it took 6 months till I finally realized how to swallow the red pill. I read all the theory, read the sidebar, read the askrp and I still didn't have the balls to talk to women when I went out.
Tonight, I met up with a buddy I hadn't seen in 4 years. We both had our confidence taken down a notch due to women cheating on us and leaving us. It was at an all time low, we both couldn't have been lower.
We sat at this club for about an hour doing nothing. Got a couple drinks and were talking. Eventually we ran out of things to say and we talked about how much we would like to dance with these women. Neither one of us did anything. FOR AN HOUR WE SAT THERE AT A TABLE. NADDA. Women were looking but we were both too pussy to get up and do it. I finally said to myself if I ever want to reach one of my goals which is a pretty hefty goal of making one million before 30, I need to be able to approach women. It just needs to be done.
I kept thinking to myself, I had ideas I couldn't act on, I was stuck in my comfort zone, ready to sit there and be content goiing home alone. Not today, I told myself. I believe in myself, and the only thing stopping me is me.So after 2 get up and sit downs along with my friend laughing at me, I fucking did it. I approached a cute short blonde who ended up being married. I made some small talk and it didn't matter what I said, it gave me the confidence to within 2 minutes approach the next woman. THE HOTTEST GIRL THERE. She was fucking digging me. She got up and went dancing but I talked to her friend and left. I went to the next girl and talked to her, then the next and the next. It was a fucking chain effect. I didn't give a fuck. I had the balls to go approach the hottest girl there and nothing was stopping me.
I helped my buddy get the confidence to go dance with a girl, by approaching her and asking her if she would like to dance with my friend. She said she had no idea but was happy to. SO HE DID IT. You know what that did? Gave him the confidence he needed to go to the next girl. A hotter one! Alllllll night they danced and she loved him.(After I nudged him some more.)
Long story short I ended up getting that hot girls attention after she had 5 guys huddling around her. She danced with me for 4 songs and was giving me all IOI's like my name, age, what I did and was feeling my muscles(Thanks lifting). I had all eyes on me in that club, but I didn't give a fuck. That social proof gave me the confidence I needed to look like an idiot (since I couldn't dance).
Brothers, I am 5'6, bald and I never believed in myself ever. Never ever. I gave my friend the confidence he needed by demonstrating I could do it, me. He's 6'3, big and good looking and HE HAD TO WATCH ME DOING IT. Guy's if you ever doubt yourself, don't. Flat out don't. Just approach. What is the worst that will happen, they reject you? You have your answer, there is no guessing. The time a girl does give you the time of day, you will be ecstatic. Just believe in yourself, I believe in you.
You just have to do it, don't read it. Just do it. See it for yourself. If a girl doesn't give you the time of day, fuck them move on to the next one. It doesn't matter, at least you can go home and say I did my best.
I don't care if no one reads this, if it helps one guy get the guts to approach a girl he is interested in thats all that matters.
Thanks TRP, I never believed in myself till I found* you.
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