Calling love mostly the product of desire and chemistry isn't what love is. And, their belief in this gives credence for women not knowing what love is, being unable to love.

Ironically while pushing the concept themselves, lol.

They know it means something to men, and when men are in love, they'll tend to do things for her and stick by her side.

You hear it all the time and see it formulated through both men and women's actions:

  1. Be attractive, means look desirable. Like you offer what people want. All desire and no chemistry, but an allusion of a chance at chemistry.

  2. After passing initial attraction requirements, go on dates or spend time together and see if you have chemistry. Meaning the man primarily must generate emotional connections and make her feel in ways that make her feel good in general.

You do this day in and day out with women or a woman and they will feel in love, especially if the level of feelings generated within them are high enough.

Combine that with attachment developed over time and there's little more to it.

And while they feel in love, that's not what love is.

And every man knows it.