Q4W: Do you feel it's unfair that women are judged for their weight?

boredthenyoureboring · 2017-08-13T04:38:15+00:00

As a fat guy who has been told flat out I'd be marriable if I was in shape I think it's not even a gendered issue

[deleted] · 2017-08-13T04:14:38+00:00

Do you feel it's unfair that women are judged for their weight?

No? People are allowed to judge others by any metric they like. Hell, if someone wants to judge women by "likeliness to survive a Sharknado," good for them. That would be a weird metric, but an equally valid one.

[deleted] · 2017-08-13T04:19:49+00:00

Not at all unfair. Humans naturally judge others on MANY metrics. Weight is just one of those, especially when it comes down to "Is this woman attractive to me?" Weight is a marker of health, and we prefer healthy people over unhealthy people. That's perfectly natural and not at all unfair.

Atlas_B_Shruggin · 2017-08-13T04:25:40+00:00

It's never "unfair" to judge anyone for anything

Battle-Scars · 2017-08-13T04:32:38+00:00

Everybody is judged for their weight. Fat women get laid easier than fat men. I'm curious, can you explain your "real men" comment?

[deleted] · 2017-08-13T04:51:06+00:00

When you consider the things men are judged based on

Such as weight?

[deleted] · 2017-08-13T04:52:21+00:00

Humans judge others on many metrics. Fairness isn't particularly part of that equation. Also, having a healthy body weight has nothing to do with starving oneself.

Butt-Factory · 2017-08-13T05:00:34+00:00

"Fair" really doesn't have anything to do with it. Mocking someone for how they look, even if they can control it, is simply a shitty thing to do.

statsfodder · 2017-08-13T05:11:03+00:00

Something can be done about being 150kg+ ... not much you can do about being 165cm tall.

Nice "real man" shame thrown in.

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TheBlackQuill · 2017-08-13T04:26:09+00:00

Not really... It is all matter of preferences

DashneDK2 · 2017-08-13T05:21:11+00:00

In a dating situation? No. Fair vers. unfair doesn't even figure into it. Anybody are entitled to have whatever preferences they want.

When it comes to it, there're some very reasonable and logical reasons to avoid fat girls like the plague: they display bad decision making, little self-control, they're likely to have shorter lifespan, health problems, fertility problems, etc. Most men wouldn't find a meth-user very attractive either. But all that is just after rationalisations. Fact is, many men just find them ugly. And that's perfectly fine.

[deleted] · 2017-08-13T05:51:17+00:00

People can judge other people for whatever they want to. But they should expect that if they go around telling people exactly what they are judging them on they will not always get the response they want.

pinkgoldrose · 2017-08-13T06:01:07+00:00

Not at all. Weight affects heath. It makes sense to be attracted to thin people - it tells you what your partner can do and how sick they will be when they get old. Maybe it's unfair to prefer women who have a BMI of 18 (what supposedly men prefer) because that's lower than healthy, but I can understand being repulsed by obesity. It makes more sense than some other preferences.

Title	Q4W: Do you feel it's unfair that women are judged for their weight?
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Date	August 13, 2017 4:10 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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