Q4Women: At what age do you consider a lack of sexual experience to be a dealbreaker for a man?

goatismycopilot · 2017-07-22T14:42:55+00:00

Look this is going to seem rude but you are using this sub as your emotional pillow/therapy consult. Have you seriously thought about therapy? You have openly said you don't expose yourself or speak to women or put yourself in situations where you might meet them then you come up with all these posts that are about you.

And frankly the other reason I think therapy is a good idea is this: you say you want to go into intelligence work they are gonna suss your stuff out and you are going to flunk the psych portion which is not just one "test" but a whole bunch of tests and more than one interview and possibly some role playing/scenario work. Then you are going to be very unhappy not to work in your dream career.

Littleknownfacts · 2017-07-22T14:46:11+00:00

If I couldn't tell, I wouldn't care. And if I was attracted to him, I wouldn't ask. And if someone did ask you, you could always lie.

pinkgoldrose · 2017-07-22T14:47:19+00:00

Why would it be a dealbreaker? If Deluxe Chad comes up to a woman and says "I've never been with a woman because I was waiting to find the One and now I know it's you", she will like it.

The dealbreaker is not being a virgin. It's just that usually the flaws that made a man unsuccessful with the ladies are making him unsuccessful with the ladies.

mybffndmyothrrddt · 2017-07-22T15:13:47+00:00

For me I care less about sexual experience and more about relationship experience. At my age it'd be weary of entering a committed relationship with someone who'd never been in one, because I can remember all the dumb ways I acted in my early relationships before I learned lessons and knew how to be a good partner. At my age if want someone who had learned their lessons too, though it wouldn't be a deal breaker by any means.

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Electra_Cute · 2017-07-22T14:42:13+00:00

I do not know, someone who I find very attractive is voluntarily celibate and 21+ years of age.

Title	Q4Women: At what age do you consider a lack of sexual experience to be a dealbreaker for a man?
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Date	July 22, 2017 2:37 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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