Should I go through with this?

Rude-Block · 2020-09-17T19:57:35+00:00

In general always accept invites unless you strongly don't want to associate with the group. Also why are you already planning to "game" her roommates w.e. that means. This girl likes you which should be evident by the fact she invited you.

jjj2576 · 2020-09-17T21:00:47+00:00

You have my permission to do what you want.

Primary_Example · 2020-09-17T19:53:12+00:00

Have u met her in person?

Max-hex · 2020-09-17T21:31:11+00:00

She just needs a little bit more comfort.

You need to get the mindset that going out for dates or not smashing on the first date is beta.

Musicgoon · 2020-09-17T20:13:56+00:00

Go or don't. If you want it, shoot your shot.

Zabi4 · 2020-09-17T21:27:38+00:00

Dont directly call her to your place if you didn't fuck her before. Give her a reason to come to your place AFTER drinking/dating publicly. "Wanna see my dog ?" "Wanna see my x"

Go with them. Enjoy your night dont try to fuck her on the first date and set up a second one. Then escalate into going to your place.

IXseed · 2020-09-18T02:34:02+00:00

Stay home. Liking pics on IG doesn't mean shit.

This girl isn't interested and just wants you to come out and waste your time. If she wanted to fuck you she'd come over.

And if SHE don't like you, chances are that's gonna rub off on her roommates which'll shoot down your chances. Also how do you even know her roommates are girls? You may be getting invited to a sausage fest.

yellowsquare1980 · 2020-09-17T22:19:50+00:00

Go. You can always say you’re meeting others later if you want to leave.

Timely-Train-3748 · 2020-09-17T21:51:16+00:00

“If you’d like to join!” In other words, you can join but I prefer that you didn’t . Personally, I wouldn’t go. If she can’t do a one on one date with you, it’s not worth it. Yea you can hit on her friends but let’s be real, majority of the time you’re going to be the odd man out.

Rolfenstien · 2020-09-17T22:32:48+00:00

Fuck it go, what else are you gonna do. Bring your mates too as to not entirely enter her frame

Coppal · 2020-09-17T23:53:04+00:00

Personally, I'd go, but don't make it easy for her to get you there. Being surrounded by women and alcohol... you can't say no really...

Say, where are you thinking of going, then when she says the place, wait a little while to reply, then say "Okay cool, I might pop down around X time" then just go...keep that mystery/anticipation imo

RedEyeBlackEye1 · 2020-09-18T04:54:57+00:00

She probably wants her friends around to see how you interact with them,use them to help vet you,spends a lot of time with them so you will have to get used to being around them,in case shit pops off they're her security.

You should be:

1)well groomed. Preferably stubble or beard with masculine haircut.

2)swaggering alpha posture(think Thor,gosling,the Rock,Daniel Craig bond)

3)be social and outgoing(but not a clown and not try hard)

4)be amused mastery, outcome independent,and chill.

5)openly flirt and be playful with her in front of them(but DON'T be a sex crazed horndog thirsty acting mfer)

6)have fun and be in the moment WHILE planning an escape in case shit popps off and you gotta nope the fuck out.

Good luck, Stay safe

Title	Should I go through with this?
Author	srp99881
Upvotes	8
Comments	19
Date	September 17, 2020 7:40 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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