Men who are late bloomers, can I ask a few questions?

hyperrreal · 2016-12-09T01:25:54+00:00

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DucksCanDance · 2016-12-09T00:56:15+00:00

Yes

It didn't really effect my self esteem, I struggled with women which sucked but I've always believed that I'm the shit

I lost my virginity sophomore year of high school, at 15. One part liquid courage, one part "good guy" game, one part get lucky AF

I would have done a "mass approach" phase at like 15 rather than in my mid 20s, I learned SO SO SO much from doing that.

Average in every way physically, a bit on the ectomorph side but I've been lifting on and off since I was like 13

[deleted] · 2016-12-09T01:03:11+00:00

Depends how you define late bloomer, everyone was going on about having sex at 14 and shit and although a lot of them were lying I'm sure some fucked around too.

I lost my virginity at 17 to a girl I met on Tumblr anyway. As soon as it happened my self-esteem increased by 1000x cuz she was hot as fuck and I suddenly become a lot more popular in school because people saw me with her.

Only thing I wish I could have done better is have been more confident at that age, I was way too scared to have proper fun with her even tho she was trying to push it, but hey that's the kind of thing that comes from experience and it was my first proper sexual relationship.

DaThrowaway808 · 2016-12-09T01:08:43+00:00

1.Why were you a late bloomer?

Dynsfunctional household

2.How did it impact your self-esteem?

Depression and suicidal

3.How did you finally lose your virginity/get a date?

Sex with my first LTR

4.If you went back in time, what would you have done differently?

Called child protective services and moved to foster care.

5.Do you have any physical characteristic that can be considered a deal breaker (being short, skinny, bald, ugly, etc.)?

I was your typical tall skinny Asian kid with 5% body fat and 0% muscle. I'm probably not on the pretty end of the spectrum.

bonerdude420 · 2016-12-09T01:11:54+00:00

1- puberty. I was 6'3 and 130lbs at the start of highschool, so a bit of a freak. By the end of highschool I wasn't any taller but only added 10lbs. From 19-21 went up to 185 which is where I've stayed.

Also limited opportunity. I studied engineering and the campus was dedicated to math and science. Easily 10-1 ratio on campus and 20-1 in my classes.

I also had standards well beyond my own attractiveness. By my early 20s it was fine as I became far more attractive and socially competent. but I wanted 8s and 9s in highschool when realistically I was a 4

2- not really. At the time I beat myself up a bit for not succeeding, but all those feelings disappeared when things got better

3- friends with a girl, told her I liked her.

4- I dunno, maybe nothing? My life's good, and any setbacks are part of who I became. I guess if I started my good lifestyle habits sooner I would have had more opportunities.

5- edit: misunderstood the question. I don't think I do

Title	Men who are late bloomers, can I ask a few questions?
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Date	December 9, 2016 12:45 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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