There is always this claim that you should never listen to women, because they don't know what they want. Which in my opinion is just plain stupid, because the best RP-like advice (in the sense of becoming fit, which clothes to wear and the importance of having style, being more dominant in bed and telling her what I want, standing up for myself when she's being a bitch, staying cool and not dropping my frame, how to approach women, how to turn them on, how to flirt, etc) I've ever gotten was by women.

I think it's actually just a bias based on how they select women and how those women select men.

There are women that know what they want out there and they also know how to get it. They are usually more confident, won't take any bullshit and tend to go for what they want, are breadwinners on their own, are strong and independent, but usually they also know which guy they want to have next so they don't rely on online dating or going to bars in order to find a partner as much. They rather sleep around in their friend circle and keep the guys that that they want close to them. They tend to show a few TRP red flags and they also have abusive douchebag red flags of their own so those two groups never really interact.

Some sluts for example are experienced enough to know exactly what turns them on and what factors need to be there for attraction. They can pinpoint what type of men turns them on due to their experience and they can even show you athletes, actors and porn stars that they are attracted to. But which RP men would even spend any time with sluts except for a quick bang.

Then there are alternative girls that know what type of men turns them on and thus choose to present themselves in that certain alternative style to attract those guys. But they won't like the basic "good for the average"-style of RP men and TRPers won't like them, because they might be sarcastic/ironic and have a weird style, dyed hair, tattoos and piercings.

On the other hand a lot of that "women don't know what they want" might have been them misunderstanding them when they only offer condolences and platidudes instead of advice. Like a fat guy that ask a woman might hear "oh no being fat is okay. you will find someone", but only because she suspects he wants to hear some positive feedback and doesn't know that he's actually that clueless about attraction (yes that solipsism on her part)

Do women really not know what they want? How many don't know it? Can you give me some examples?