How do you reconcile TRP with your wife (if you're married), or married life. Do you discuss TRP with her? Or do you incorporate the theories into your day to day life?

feminazis_stalk_me · 2015-01-08T06:44:09+00:00

You NEVER discuss TRP with ANYBODY - women just plain won't understand it and see it as evil, and guys will act out against it unless they are at a point in their lives where they are open to accepting it.

I'm married and TRP is very useful because our wives are WOMEN. Dread game, passing shit tests, captain /first mate dynamic - these are ALL useful. Having a wife is easy - KEEPING a wife is hard, and internalizing and applying TRP will help keep your marriage going strong.

If you're needing to make MAJOR changes, be ready for some resistance. When your wife sees you working out, improving yourself and standing up to her, she will assume the worst and act out. When you no longer buckle under her threats, tantrums and shitty behavior, she will wonder where you're getting your new backbone from. After a while - once she's sure you're serious about being a MAN who gets what he wants, she will accept and start to love the new you. Just maintain frame, improve and ask questions as needed.

sir_wankalot_here · 2015-01-08T15:42:35+00:00

I made sure my dog reads a book on how to train dogs on a regular basis.

wickedwildewolf · 2015-01-08T14:24:59+00:00

Of course I don't discuss TRP with my wife or my girlfriend. Occasionally I will say something about how I think a man should behave, or how silly someone is for doing something we would call blue pill behaviour. But living the life is where it's at.

abdada · 2015-01-08T04:38:14+00:00

Athol Kay's blog and book are great. Married Man Sex Life is the book/blog. Check it out.

He's got it down pretty well -- TRP without too much PUA (just enough).

Rollo Tomasi's site at The Rational Male is excellent, too. He's married with a daughter, too.

If I had a daughter? I'd show her how I am the leader of the home without being the dictator. I'd show her how much her mother earns my love and devotion ("rewards") while also not being afraid to punish bad behavior.

She will want a man like that for her.

AnonE_Mouse1 · 2015-01-08T07:45:33+00:00

Say Nothing to her! If you speak of TRP, you will blow it ( she will NOT )

SuperSlavisWife · 2015-01-08T14:33:00+00:00

As a counter: RP awareness has prepared us for the challenges we are about to face when I take over earning for a while. We know the problems most couples with breadwinning women have and why they have them. We also know that as a pretty submissive woman I am going to dislike being the main earner and as a very dominant and independent man he's going to dislike being unemployed. But this awareness means we're prepared to work through it and tide the storm. It'd be hard to give in to the typical patterns once we've already worked out what the irrational, subconscious process behind those feelings is.

[deleted] · 2015-01-08T20:02:50+00:00

Guys are better doing than talking so my advice is to STFU and live your values.

However women can be surprisingly RP aware at times, especially when its related to how men behave and how it impacts their attraction to men.

Beyond that, you best be careful since if the argument goes bad you'll use logic and she will use emotions. You'll lose that argument and lower your value.

HAMMURABl · 2015-01-08T06:35:02+00:00

of course TRP is anti LTR. long-term relationships will never give you the butterflies that a short-term relationship (<1 year) has.

Not even bluepillers argue that their relationship after a few years is similar to the one they had in the beginning. oh yes, they say these intense feelings from the beginning have been replaced with .. "love".

what they mean is not "love", but convenience. a fellow rp pointed it out

A plate will fall in love with you deeper in a week than an LTR will ever love you in 50 years.

that is the hard truth. of course you will find even find the occasional redpiller trying to rationalize the loss of passion in his LTR.

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