What do blue pullers think of the Scott Alexander article about entitlement, can't link it for some reason?

FallingSnowAngel · 2015-10-12T00:05:13+00:00

I think it's telling he mentally turns this -

They are so desperate to please that they put aside their own needs, and place the object of their desire on a pedestal. Instead of appreciating her, they worship her. We are only human, and pedestals are narrow, confining places to be -- not to mention the fact that we tend to fall off of them.

Into

People will tell them they’re evil misogynist rapists – as the articles above did –

He completely ignores the fact that the same article talks about abusive women.

That kind of bitterness is a problem. It turns everything you say, into the most negative possible interpretation. And most people can and will pick up on it.

Even if they don't know why.

He also wants to know why an abusive asshole is able to hurt some really vulnerable victims over and over again? He could do that, if that's all he wanted. His mindset would even make it easier than his current strategy.

Is that really what he wants?

His trouble is extremes.

A false choice.

Look, I have endless issues with the redpill, and most don't really like me. But where we meet, is we both agree that a romantic/sexual relationship has it's own rhythms, it's own kind of communication. It's about finding your way past each other's barriers, towards the awesome center, no matter how fast or how slow, and done right, it's all kinds of kinky fun for everyone - everybody wins.

He needs to learn how to make a sexual or romantic connection with another human being. There's no other way around it.

TheChemist158 · 2015-10-11T23:11:46+00:00

Can you at least give a summary of it?

Xemnas81 · 2015-10-11T23:17:01+00:00

This thread has been done before.

https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/2fzc9x/radicalizing_the_romanceless/?

I really liked it, but I'm not purple pill.

cuittler · 2015-10-11T23:28:47+00:00

Please add:

link to the article
summary of the article
a question or comment about why BPers may find this relevant

Title	What do blue pullers think of the Scott Alexander article about entitlement, can't link it for some reason?
Author	old_man_tom3
Upvotes	1
Comments	10
Date	October 11, 2015 11:07 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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