I don't have the link, but the other day I was reading a therapist's reaction to the popularity of 50 shades of grey. She said that the success of the novels and movie was attributed for women's want of men to take charge. That many men were upset they needed to be the dominant partner in the relationship.

But really, this has always been the way relationships worked. Feminists have been wailing that gender is just a social construct, that men and women's sex drives are essentially equal, warped by the "patriarchy". But instead of diversifying, women have now become even more submissive in their sex fantasies. Meanwhile, Beta Bob is struggling to know why nobody is interested in his soft-spoken manner.

Dominance is all about power. Confidence. Control. And every aspect of dating puts the reigns in men's hands. Nervous about initiating? Then DIE ALONE you fat neckbeard! Don't have enough money to treat her out? LOSER! Lack ambition? Go back to 4chan, VIRGIN! Women's hypergamy requires them to be subservient to stronger, more confident, powerful men. You're not her equal, you're her rock. And thus the notion of feminist equality is absolutely ridiculous. If feminism doesn't work in the bedroom, it might as well not exist. Women are so subservient, I've even seen them NEED the guy to decide where to go to eat.

http://saysthesinglegirl.com/2009/weak-men/

The guys in the comments are shocked, SHOCKED, that women don't have the same tastes they do. The girls are calmly agreeing. AWALT.

Being submissive or equal is the worst thing to do to your relationship. And seeing the high divorce rate, initiated by women, it seems like feminism has backfired spectacularly.