Ask a girl over VS Ask a girl over to fuck

nobody_thinks · 2019-09-26T12:51:07+00:00

she needs plausible deniability

SerialATA_Killer · 2019-09-26T14:56:14+00:00

I have, and you can, straight up ask a girl over. It's worked a couple times for me, but most of the time it gets flat out shut down with "I'm not that type of girl" or something like that.

Much better to have a dumb reason for plausible deniability. Remember, it's your fault sex happened. She was just going over to your place to meet your goldfish at 2 am, she's innocent and definitely not a slut.

lietruth · 2019-09-26T13:32:03+00:00

The problem with stating the obvious is you are telling her what is going to happen. Instead of just letting it happen.

You see, plausible deniability is a woman's best disguise. If she agreed to go to your place after you blatantly told her you two were going to have sex, she would look like a slut to herself, you and her friends/social circle in her mind. She doesn't want to give it up under too little guise for fear of this. It's ENGRAINED in women to be like this. Not going to change.

What you should do, for example, is escalate in person at some venue, then ask her to come outside with you to "get some air". Then find some reason for you both to split and get some food. After, she‘s agreed to eat the food at your house, then boom ASD passed, and in her mind your in the category of guys who just "get it".

Women want to feel like sex “just happened”. Sex needs to be blamed on you in the end, so it’s not her decision, she was just going up to eat her chipotle and sex was in the bag next to the salsa. She needs to feel like it was unplanned. More tingles. The trick is to tell her enough of a story so she doesn’t feel like a slut, and can feel free with you.

Why will she feel free with you? Because she knows your not going to judge her, your going to fuck her. A primordial way women sort the betas from the alphas.

Give her hamster something to run with.

CainPrice · 2019-09-26T15:27:17+00:00

Making a girl promise you future sex is the sign of an insecure beta male.

Picture the unloved husband whining to his wife, "But you said maybe tonight when I asked this morning!"

That's who you're trying to be when you try to get a girl to promise you future sex. It's very unsexy.

You want to be the kind of guy who just has girls over and hangs out with them and things happen. The kind of guy who gets it, knows the game, and understands the casual sex culture. Not the kind of guy who needs to directly negotiate for sex - that guy looks like an imposter who isn't actually part of the casual sex culture.

BurnoTaurus · 2019-09-26T17:05:42+00:00

Plausibilitus, denialus

boy_named_su · 2019-09-26T19:06:32+00:00

Sidebar motherfucker

chadtrx · 2019-09-26T13:25:18+00:00

You answered your own question. * Golf Clap* Give her a excuse to be over and screw. Don’t be explicit.

IXseed · 2019-09-26T15:21:38+00:00

Give her plausible deniability. She needs you to take the blame if she has sex so it "just happened" and she doesn't come off as a slut.

Better you get some LMR in person and can pass it than to get that over text and now her guard is up, making it HARDER for you to fuck her

Sylvester_Sterone · 2019-09-26T18:54:56+00:00

For the first few times.. invite her over to try out your new bottled water, brand new cat poster, and record collection.

Once you set the tone of the relationship try saying "come over, wear a thong"

bodybuilder98 · 2019-09-26T15:22:00+00:00

Sidebar ffs. Why is this getting upvoted?

Domebeers · 2019-09-26T16:57:35+00:00

It can work, hell, it's worked for me once, but it won't work as consistently as being indirect, unless you have massive SMV, like you are a famous person. The poster on here who said 'she needs plausible deniability' is 1000% correct.

cdh1003 · 2019-09-26T20:18:43+00:00

Dude, read the sidebar first, then you'll be welcomed here.

Haytch1234 · 2019-09-26T21:12:54+00:00

Ask the girl over. Period.

This already implies / hints sex may be on the table. Dont be anymore specific.

If she pushes for more detail just be vague.

ThatcherReeves · 2019-09-27T00:59:33+00:00

You can’t be direct until you’ve already started fucking. It’s not gonna fly the first time

Read the sidebar and rational male dude. It’s worth it this is basic stuff

Title	Ask a girl over VS Ask a girl over to fuck
Author	RPGCodex
Upvotes	11
Comments	20
Date	September 26, 2019 12:49 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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