I’ve been seeing a girl for a few months and I can tell I’m gonna get the “what are we” question fairly soon. This girl is pretty much what I’m looking for in an LTR as she is pleasant to be around, sex is good and she’s willing to try anything, she has a good relationship with her family, and she’s cute but she could probably lose 15-20 lbs I would guess. Like I would say she has a decent amount of potential as her face is a 7-8. She already goes to the gym but I’m sure she does the typical girl workout. Obviously if I were to LTR her I would help her on her routine and diet as I already go to the gym and eat fairly clean.

Anyways I would like to get married, despite the risks, as I would like to have children and I believe marriage is the best environment for that. She seems to generally check all the boxes except for the being a little overweight. She is 25 and has been working for a few years so I would say she’s probably gained a little each year but it’s not like she’s 19 and blew up in size her freshman year of college if that makes sense.

I would like to get your thoughts on if you think it may be worth it to consider LTRing this girl or letting the plate drop. Obviously blowing up in size is a dealbreaker and I could always break up with her if she doesn’t change her ways but wanted to see what you guys thought about the circumstances.