Asked her out on a date. "Maybe"

DoesItMatterTooYou · 2019-10-07T23:35:25+00:00

Next... you lost frame.

Maybe is always a bad answer for just about any question.

wanker7171 · 2019-10-07T23:28:29+00:00

"maybe like a yes?"

god the cringe is real. If you have to ask if she wants to go on a date with you, you're doing it wrong.

VasiliyZaitzev · 2019-10-07T23:19:51+00:00

Move on to game other girls. If she was into you, she'd be plowing the road for you.

FinancialThanks1 · 2019-10-07T23:04:43+00:00

Beg her

PickUpScientist · 2019-10-07T23:04:56+00:00

to which I replied "maybe like a yes?"

this was already pushing it. if you don't get a straight answer, don't respond until you do. this reply makes it look like you care, which is a turn off for women.

Red_Pill_Brotherhood · 2019-10-08T01:19:53+00:00

Anything other than a yes and making the plans is a no. Also, dont let women lead you on like this- the game is about polarizing women quickly to test for cooperation(sex being a form of cooperation). No room for maybes and vagueness. Next this chick and move on. Also, stop texting so much.

Redhotdude1 · 2019-10-07T22:56:51+00:00

Personally I wouldn’t ask some out over text but I think you should let her go.

QawL · 2019-10-07T23:27:32+00:00

She already thought about you guys being a couple so it's answer for both date and relationship. Don't ask her again but show some value of yourself. Let her to catch up with the feeling of you guys being together.

AngryBadger42 · 2019-10-08T00:55:54+00:00

You 100% lost your frame to her (assuming you had it to begin with) when you replied with “maybe like a yes?”. This automatically put the ball back in her court and made her the prize.

Fuck that. I’d ignore her for a couple of days and see if she comes back. If she does, maintain frame and carry on. If not, next

occupynewparadigm · 2019-10-08T01:54:43+00:00

Next time you get a girls number call her don't text and ask her out. Actually scratch that. Instead of getting her number next time just ask her out and set a date.

Hungboy6969420 · 2019-10-08T02:51:33+00:00

Last time a girl said maybe, I told her I don't do maybe. She back pedaled pretty hard. We went out and I smashed no problems

Towaway1001 · 2019-10-08T08:03:15+00:00

I want to add that shes in a different country so im trying to maintain communication, hence cannot arrange a specific date

frognads · 2019-10-08T07:49:22+00:00

Delete her number.

SonOfMammon · 2019-10-08T11:18:46+00:00

She's trying to string you along for attention. Next

Jabbermouth · 2019-10-08T15:38:42+00:00

This hurt to read.

If you have any respect for yourself, you will d delete her number and find a girl who actually wants to fuck you.

kpl008 · 2019-10-09T00:53:49+00:00

Fucking Beta...

krustibat · 2019-10-07T22:56:03+00:00

Assert confidence by proposing a precise time for the date like next week I would say

Title	Asked her out on a date. "Maybe"
Author	Towaway1001
Upvotes	0
Comments	24
Date	October 7, 2019 10:53 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/der88y/asked_her_out_on_a_date_maybe/
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