Backstory: We live in different countries in Western-EU. We are only a 2hr train ride/car ride away from each other. She lives in a small town, i live in a big and fun capital.

In the summer i met a girl. She was in my country/city with a friend of a friend of mine she friendzone'd. I ended up fucking her in a toilet of a lounge and eventually she dropped the 'friend of a friend' she was with to spend the night with me. Afterwards she texted me how much fun she had and how she will never forget it, i kinda saved her 'boring' trip.

A month later, i come visit her small town. We have good sex, she does everything i want and we are a good team. Our personalities also match. But its just fun and sex. We made it clear, we are just friends, we match well but this is only fun and sex.

3 Weeks later she visits my city, fun and a lot of sex. She does everything i want, we eat & drink, chill, more sex and more sex. I even get to videotape us having sex, for my fap-pleasure.

Last weekend i visit her. She is always exited when i visit. My plan was to go there after work on Friday, and stay untill Monday morning and go from there directly to work with the train (2 hr train ride). Friday was fun, Saturday was fun, lots of sex and going out. On sunday she gets her period, the first hour she was very fun and friendly. She was sleeping and i was just sitting in the kitchen watching my favorite sitcom. She wakes up, very friendly, kisses whatever.

An hour later, she turns into a total bitch. Drops hint that she would rather have me leave today, because she feels like being alone. I play the, ''i only stay when i am welcome card''. But it secretly was still a pain in the ass, because i was planning to have a chill Sunday over there and do the whole traveling thing on Monday. But she got real cold, distant, even gave me a slight attitude. I asked what is wrong, She said, nothing: sometimes i just have the feeling i would like to be alone? It was nothing i did, according to her. I felt disrespected, because she just kicked me out, why not tell me earlier you want me to leave on Sunday instead of Monday? She just felt like me leaving at that time and not earlier. I booked my train at 6pm, she even told me: there is also a train leaving at 5pm. I was like, fuck that then i would have to hurry and i would like to take my time. She saw that as me delaying time, i was honestly just not in the mood to hurry, pack my shit and run to the train.

In the meantime, we actually kinda confirmed to see each other in 4 weeks again.

So i left, tonguekissed her goodbye and went on. Couple hours later she texted me if i was home safely.

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How come her fucking 180 degree change in attitude?

  • We always mix being cute (as if we are a couple) with hot sex where she calls herself my little slut that needs to get fucked rough. We already established, no relationship because of the distance. Just sex, fun and sometimes some cuteness.
  • The day before, when we were at a restaurant. She even picked a very tiny and small piece of whatever out of the front of my nose, like a mother cat grooming her kittens.
  • She sucked my dry that night and had shower sex
  • She visits my city, which she loves. I visit her town, because i love seeing other places from time to time, i just love being in a foreign place where nobody knows me.
  • She did warn me the days before that her period sometimes shows up early, it was planned on Monday. But she said that would be a good excuse to fuck without a condom.
  • She sends picks of her boobs, with my hickeys on them. 'Look how long they stay ha-ha''

But the next day a complete change in attitude

  1. Are these just the hormones, and girls being fucking crazy during their period?
  2. Did i actually do something wrong and loose frame? I did kinda loose a bit of frame when i showed sadness/ anger/pissed off when she kicked me out, but i felt genuinely disrespected by her just kicking me out.
  3. Is her having her period just an excuse?

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What can i make of this?

Standard answers: I lift, almost got my sixpack. Probably 3% BF away from it. Eat clean, groom myself, got well fitted clothes etc.