I am 20, average looking, pretty new to game and very inexperienced so i am glad for any advice. Also first time posting here.
So last Saturday night a friend of mine got me onto the guest list of the club he was playing in (its a famous club in my city and he is a DJ). I got a few drinks in a bar with my roommate before I headed into the club solo.
The club makes it pretty easy to socialize since there are football tables and nintendo64s with mario cart on it, which are foolproof icebreakers. So some blonde invited me to play a round of mario against her, I lose and she pretty much beggs for drinks after that. After some flirting and refusing to buy her a drink she loses interest and talks to other dudes nearby.
For some reason her female friend (who I have never even spoke a word with) orders two beers from the bartender while I am talking to a guy next to me and insists on me paying for them. She almost started to cry when I looked her deep in the eyes and asked her what the fuck she was thinking inviting herself into my purse. So I refused to go on explaining to her how rude her behavior is and left.
Shortly after I met my DJing buddy (who was done by the time) and my roommate who came over too and we chill and talk in the VIP area where we enjoy free drinks. After some time this weird guy invites himself into the area claiming he'd know some of the people here to try to get his hands on some free drinks. We talked a little and shortly after he vanished, leaving some pretty blonde girl in the room who immediately started eyefucking me. She did it so intensely it really didn't seem normal anymore, I honestly wasn't sure if she was on drugs, since she looked like she couldn't believe what she was seeing. It was insane. So after we held eye contact for some time she came over to me and we start to smalltalk, I started with some light kino and asked her if she wanted to dance, so i grabbed her hand and pulled her after me. She asked me if I had a girlfriend and told me about her boyfriend who she wanted to dump, so i told her I didn't care about him, since I was just here to have fun. Little did i know that her boyfriend was actually the guy who I talked to before. It just didn't come to my mind that she would flirt with me so aggressively with him in our vicinity. So he showed up shortly after and started to talk to her. At that point I went to the bar, ordered a beer and started to talk to some random girl in order to make blonde jealous but she seemed too occupied in having a conversation with his boyfriend (who even offered me a cigarette before even though he has seen us flirting with each other) so i left the bar and got back to my mates.
All in all that night was fun but I feel like I could have gotten that girl laid easily if her bf wouldn't have shown up. Does anyone have any advice how I could have solved that problem somehow?
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