Beta Friends Are Getting Agressive And Cockblocking

HumanSockPuppet · 2019-10-29T13:57:14+00:00

Man Law goes like this: if you and your bruh are into the same chick, then the one who knew her first gets priority, and the second wingmans him.

If he misses or flubs his shot, or if the chick is clearly more interested in #2 during the attempt, then #2 becomes the primary and #1 wingmans him.

What you don't do ever is cockblock a bro for the sake of a bitch. They're not worth it.

If your bro(s) are blocking you, sit down and have a talk about priorities. If they're not on the same page, part ways peacefully.

7inchnofapper · 2019-10-29T13:23:41+00:00

Lol u got the right idea. Fuck her just to flex. If I were u, I wouldnt take those faggots seriously, or hang out with them.

RedSkeller · 2019-10-29T13:21:10+00:00

If they're mad at you over a woman, or blaming you and not the woman, then dump them. They're shitty friends. Also, don't help out people who don't want it or don't deserve it, let them rot.

W_O_M_B_A_T · 2019-10-29T16:51:03+00:00

Get her to text you about all kinds of depraved BDSM type stuff, getting gangbanged, etc.

Then screenshot and send to him, ask him why he's so hung up on some nasty slut. Ask him if he thought she was special.

DjGus · 2019-10-29T17:06:48+00:00

Your "friend" may have been playing the victim card, and started talking shit behind your back, just like most of the sorry ass children called "men" these days...

Beta is being too nice for those types. Because they behave like women.

DesperateChemical · 2019-10-29T20:57:04+00:00

Fuck her. Your friend is a faggot.

whosaccisthis94 · 2019-10-29T16:15:09+00:00

Betas can be dangerous... He's cockblocking you now because of a girl would you trust him with your life.

nameisahmad · 2019-10-29T20:33:31+00:00

Bro, your beta friend thinks he still has a chance with her after he got rejected, thats what betas are, and now he is acting like a lil bitch. I’d say fuck her and fuck them too. Stay longer with them and youll become one of them

[deleted] · 2019-10-29T15:20:20+00:00

your kneecap; their balls

FlatEarthBowlCut69 · 2019-10-29T15:48:04+00:00

I’d be pissed off too. That should never happen between friends, especially if it’s so cut and dry that she is into you and not him. The worst part is that you haven’t even done anything, thats the part that would make me angriest. If you hear any other pussy bullshit about it I’d 100 percent smash.

ProFriendZoner · 2019-10-30T00:57:03+00:00

First Fuck her NOW!

Second explain the facts of life to them that the woman chooses who she fucks and he isn't on the list.

Massap24 · 2019-10-29T13:42:41+00:00

I’ve been in this situation except my friends even though they’re beta had sense enough not to act like a bitch about it. I never fucked the girl and everything was cool. But in your case you should definitely fuck & flex.

thrwy75479 · 2019-10-29T15:46:44+00:00

Fuck then cut.

PhaedrusHunt · 2019-10-29T18:13:34+00:00

first of all I think you should know the answers to these questions but you're here so I'll do my best kid

My poor friend which I tried to help him get this girl is such a beta

that was your first mistake. Don't try to help beta guys unless they ask. Even then don't really try to help. Woke AFCs already think they know everything why try to help the unwilling? Waste of time

Here is this problem ; I did NOT escalate,I did NOT kino and I have NEVER called or texted this girl or even asked to hang out,I did NOT hang out with this girl without the presence of my friends.

it doesn't matter if you're hanging out with a bunch of dorks all you have to do is not be a dork

I replied "I talked with him about this and its between me and him"

None of his business. Don't reply at all or else be really curt

.If they show any more signs of hostility I'm gonna fuck that bitch just to flex.

Do it if you want to, but ONLY if you want to.

Why does this happen

You're hanging out with losers

and how can I get out of this situation with minimal losses?

Don't hang out with losers

Also should I cut these friends off ?

Not if you want to hang out with losers.

ArnoldT1000 · 2019-10-29T20:40:07+00:00

Stop hanging out with them

Foolishoe · 2019-10-29T21:15:12+00:00

They will get over it. Just do your thing with her and tell your friend he missed his shot, tell everyone he missed his shot and no one owns her. That's some trashy 4th grade shit to say you own a chick because you had feelings, have feelings, or want something. Really hard up nice guy shit.

TheStumblingWolf · 2019-10-29T21:42:11+00:00

They are not your friends.

VasiliyZaitzev · 2019-10-30T01:35:57+00:00

First, you need new friends.

Second, your betafag friend is a loser. You owe him nothing. He needs some Preparation H to get over his butthurt.

Third, she is using you as “protection” against him. You are under no obligation to provide it. If she starts rubbing your leg, get up and move. Offer to switch seats with him.

Bottom Line: he is a non-scoring doosh who can’t take a hint. That’s not your problem.

DiggerClam · 2019-10-30T10:56:31+00:00

Friends....

riiiiiight

throwaway4643366577 · 2019-11-01T02:21:37+00:00

Update : the situation is getting bigger,these 3 motherfuckers are telling uninvolved people that I'm hitting on her even though I REFUSE to hang out with them when they were present.

I think I will confront them about this in a few days and if they dont drop this issue I will fuck her just to flex on them kids.

Any feedback and advice would be appreciated

Herdsengineers · 2019-10-29T15:45:56+00:00

Meh. Women aren't worth the trouble with other guys. Go find a find a new woman and parade her in front of the other guys. This chick that's IOI'ing you will be disappointed, jealous, etc. but this ain't about her. She's not entitled to you. If she says or asks about it, just politely tell her you have a mate that was hot for her, and while you knew she was interested, you passed because you didn't want to stir up that kind of trouble. Let her down easy, affirm she's a good girl, just bad timing, then wish her good luck and send her on her way.

That said - I agree with others that these guys aren't a good long term tribe for you. The one guy sounds like he has oneitis despite never getting anywhere with her. Just gracefully bow out when you can.

Domebeers · 2019-10-29T22:59:21+00:00

The Eternal Woman.

Listen, if this guy is your friend, when the girl rejected him, she should have been rejected from the friend circle. Why where you letting this girl hang around?

My man, the only rule in game is you do not fuck with your friends girls. That's the only rule. Why are you breaking the only rule?

This girl is probably going to try to run through the entire friend group. Get that cancer out of there. You'll fuck her, she'll dump you and then go fuck the other friends in the group. Have you not seen this before? This is basic shit.

These friends should cut you off, by the sounds of it.

With that said, and I've posted this many a time: If you have a guy in your friend group that can't get women, you need to cut them out of the friends group or teach them game, because they will sell you out for a whiff of pussy. Look at OP here. He is willing to blow up his friend group because a girl smiled at him. OP should have had his friends back and rejected this girl flat out, as there are lots of other women out there to fuck that won't piss your friend off.

TheBunk_TB · 2019-10-29T17:39:40+00:00

Its time to move on completely. Different place and friends.

MrAnderzon · 2019-10-29T19:54:17+00:00

Keep TRP to yourself. And drop nuggets rarely for your friends. First rule of TRP don't talk about TRP

Drop your friends peacefully.

juliusstreicher · 2019-10-30T02:33:45+00:00

Cut these friends off, particularly, beta friend. They are blind men with knves...being around them is not healthy.

Don_Draper27 · 2019-10-29T16:34:35+00:00

If this is the only issue you've had with this group of friends then I'd recommend putting in reasonable effort to try and resolve it. A good group of friends is hard to come by and going nuclear by fucking the girl and saying fuck you can hurt your reputation which causes more problems than you'd like.

And it seems like everyone is being covert. No one is telling the friend that he needs to move on. No one is telling the girl that you're not interested. You need to be straight up with your friends if you think your relationship with this group is worth anything.

"I talked with him about this and its between me and him"

This is a good response but the goal here should be to move past this and remove the tension.

I had this happen to a group of mine where a girl felt uncomfortable because a friend wouldn't stop DM'ing her and asking her out. I was the one to take action and tell the buddy that he had to cease his approaches. I told him that everyone being comfortable and friendly with each other was much more important than him trying to get a date. I even went beyond and explained to him how having this cute girl in our group would attract other cute girls who would better be available for him. It was awkward and uncomfortable for me but it worked and now we all hang out in peace and have a good time.

Questionnaire7 · 2019-10-29T20:16:51+00:00

You should breakit down logically for them. You didnt esclate and its not your fault shes into you. Point out to them their reputation damaging behavior is female in nature.

Im so lucky all my blue pill friends dont ever desire to leave their houses.

AuberyBitoni · 2019-10-29T16:36:51+00:00

Why are you talking about getting cockblocked when you don't even want this girl? This girl is obviously playing games and your beta friend is too dumb to notice it, she's trying to make him jealous, she loves the attention. So far you've been a good friend. If you don't consider him a close friend, fuck this girl. But if he's a close friend, ignore her and spend your time on better things...

Lateralanouncer · 2019-10-29T21:57:22+00:00

I disagree. Bros before hoes. Your putting getting your nut off before your friend. You should be working with your bro and supporting each other while gaming.

Title	Beta Friends Are Getting Agressive And Cockblocking
Author	throwaway4643366577
Upvotes	62
Comments	55
Date	29 October 2019 01:14 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	askTRP
Link	https://theredarchive.com/post/293191
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/dopmm3/beta_friends_are_getting_agressive_and/