There's this girl I met a couple months back at a yoga class. I'm a regular there, so I noticed the new people (chicks), and while she was pretty, I didn't pay too much attention to her. One day she moves her mat next to mine, but since I'm usually getting in the zone before class I just ignore her. I bump into her after a morning half marathon race event and mention that I'm going to yoga class later in the day to stretch out. She didn't run in the event so I'm not too surprised that she shows up. We make small talk but that's about it.

Fast forward a few days, I notice her noticing me as she is leaving the class before mine. Again I don't really think anything of it. Later that day she friend requests me on fb. Normally I just accept and ignore my fb "friends" but I decide to scope her out. Turns out she's a a personal trainer. I see her again sporadically at class but only small talk her, until I figure it'd be beneficial to get her professional expertise on my workout regimes.

We make plans and begin working out together at the beach, and get to know each other better. It turns out, she's actually a cool person and she and I share a lot in common. She seems like a strong LTR candidate. It wasn't my intention to date her when I initially asked her to train with me, but as I got to know her, I began to like her more. She's a very friendly and sociable person.

Now her last bf was abusive and she was/is dealing with some legal/medical issues as a result of it. This being the case, I wasn't sure how to approach the subject of us dating. She has dropped a few hints about doing things together besides working out, and we have gone to see a movie once. When we did, I met her at her place since she offered to drive us both (I only have a motorcycle and one helmet, plus it's cold out) She proceeds to give me a full tour of her place. She even shows off how much of a organization nazi she is by showing off her bra drawer. Anyway, we watch the movie, chit chat back at her place and since I'm not noticing any IOI's I leave.

We're both very busy at our respective jobs, so aside from linking up to work out we don't really see each other that often. I asked her to be my partner on a group workout challenge, which she agreed to, but again, even with that we don't usually do it at the same time. We text sometimes (I try not to initiate unless it's a logistical type text), but if I post something on Instagram, like a "gainz" photo, she's "liked" it almost as soon as it's posted.

As a side note, I am pretty active on tinder, and can spin and fuck plates weekly if I try. I've gotten so efficient at it, I don't ever have to ask for girls numbers anymore, they just randomly give me their digits(I'm not talking about the spam bots, either).

That being said, although I can next this girl if need be, I actually see potential with her. But I haven't explicitly asked her out, and I'm unsure of whether or not she's just being nice and a friend or if I'm just oblivious to her IOI's. While she's not overly flirtatious, she doesn't shoot me down when I get suggestive.

Sorry for the "wall of words". I know I've screwed this thing ten ways to Sunday, but I need some real red pill wisdom from you more experienced pillers.