Girls treating me opposite

fratercicero · 2019-11-07T08:50:39+00:00

Bro this is a great sign it means that they see you as high value. Women didn’t make fun of you when you were fat because they weren’t attracted to you and therefore didn’t have a reason to shit test you. You’re doing perfect using A&A just use these women as practice for passing shit tests and I’m sure you’ll get laid soon.

FinancialThanks1 · 2019-11-07T08:55:21+00:00

They were probably being nice to you out of pity. You might be a cunt now idk. Either way, more girls are attracted to you now than before. Get to work

lazydogg9 · 2019-11-07T11:28:20+00:00

Congrats... You've levelled up.

Hate always comes from those below you. They see you as high value.

maddisser101 · 2019-11-07T15:40:29+00:00

I mean we only know you from the odd sum of words in this post - this does nothing to illustrate your body language, what you actually say, how you carry yourself, and what you actually look like.

There is a guy at my university in the gym that can do fifty straight pull ups, bench 300 lbs five reps at a time, and has a ripped six pack with abs. He is SO ANNOYING and everyone hates him. He walks around giving other people tips on working out, talks to EVERYONE even when they have their headphones in, and tries to hit on every girl in the gym. Everyone on campus hates him even though he lifts a lot and approaches a lot of people. He even does these stupid recycling benefit in the student union and no one walks by him because he is so annoying and unbearable to talk to - the organization suffers because of him!

I do not even know his name and I hate him. He makes people uncomfortable and has a shit way of externalizing himself. Maybe you are that guy, maybe those women are bitches, I don't know. All I know is that just lifting and doing the generic responses to shit tests are not enough for all of this - it is how you carry yourself all the time and what you show people externally that helps others shape their view of you. You may mean well, or think you mean well, but what you actually produce can be different.

RPOpenUp · 2019-11-07T14:14:55+00:00

Like someone else posted: The women noticed that your SMV increased.

This will cause two things to happen:

Girls will start shit-testing you because they are now attracted to you.
People, in general don't like change. This is how blue pill men are raised; Be grateful for what you get. However you want to become better which is good, but other people around you are not going to like this change. They will try to pull you down, back into your old pattern. Into your old frame that they used to know. If you're not strong enough and you haven't really changed and you pretended you did, you will fail and be in your old position. REMEMBER: If you are strong enough and have genuinely changed you will bust through this bullshit and come out even stronger. Once you've proved this to yourself and to others they will either be jealous or respect you. Either way you will be in a better position and your confidence will increase.

Keep pushing and eventually it will pay off.

PoetAlcoholic · 2019-11-07T15:12:06+00:00

You're more attractive, so they are testing your ability to react to challenges such as social pressure, aka, them being a giant bitch. Don't fret, it means you're doing well. Work on your flirting, and you're on the fastest possible train to Bonetown USA.

Rodent9 · 2019-11-07T12:01:37+00:00

Filipino women are fat, gross or Catholic. Good riddance.

DerDroogie · 2019-11-07T08:44:21+00:00

Where are you? In the Philippines or somewhere else?

shitwiththatass · 2019-11-07T18:59:07+00:00

The medium is the message. Focus less on what is being said to you and more on how they address you period.

Snowboard18 · 2019-11-08T02:37:26+00:00

They hate us cause they ain’t us, in terms of smv

hoopingblob · 2019-11-07T10:59:05+00:00

Did you read the sidebar? It explains why they do this to you

Title	Girls treating me opposite
Author	Skideroo62
Upvotes	27
Comments	21
Date	November 7, 2019 8:36 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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