I am good looking, muscular, take care of me yet the girls of the other department do like they don’t see me when I walk.

Gaidsbola · 2019-11-13T14:00:13+00:00

To be honest. You’re not good looking and your not muscular. You just think you are. You’re giving off creeper vibes and probably have zero social skills. And from the way your post is written a touch of autisim. Post a link to your pics.

Also why do you care about coworkers. Don’t shit where you eat.

Truedemocracy5 · 2019-11-13T14:57:40+00:00

Eh you’d be surprised how subtle women can be with checking a guy out - especially in an office setting.

You want to know if she’s into you? Go to happy hours

i-am-the-prize · 2019-11-13T14:25:23+00:00

yeah, if the group (all but one) shun you by turning around to avoid greeting you, you're the problem.

all it takes is one seeing you creep stare at her tits, and it goes like this in the breakroom:

girl1: "OMG i caught Joseph, like, totally staring at my tits in the elevator today!"

girl2: "he's such a creep, I saw him staring at Stacy's butt in line at the cafeteria, too."

girl3: "OMG, me too, he totally undressed Lydia when waiting in line at the copier - ugh, so gross"

and you have now officially become the office creeper.

so, don't shit where you eat... but as a platonic social challenge, to practice Game and Frame, build out from the one that smiles at you. Actually greet her one day, ask how she's doing and be actually friendly. Leave it at that. Dont' stare, don't creep. Then keep going with the others, if any of them are APART from the gorup. As a group they will be self-conscious about ASD in the eyes of their peers. Again, this is just a challenge if you're up for it, not to actually try to shit where you eat.

HitlerWasABeauty · 2019-11-13T14:11:31+00:00

Bruh you're creepier then a motherfucker.

The body langauge says they're avoiding you.

If a girl is intimidated by you she would act embarrassed not disturbed.

polarizingpotato · 2019-11-13T14:01:37+00:00

Maybe they think you’re a dickhead?

Or

You’re ugly

Or

They’re nervous (probably unlikely)

sjswander94 · 2019-11-13T14:06:28+00:00

Girls get nervous too. Last weekend I approached a hb8 Russian chick. She looked at me smiled looked down (avoided eye contact)and walked away. Rejection right? Wrong lol. I re-approach 20 minutes later she lit up. She didn’t say much but her body language was screaming” take me now”. 5 minutes later we r in a closed off room in the bar getting hot and heavy. Couldn’t seal the deal had to leave early. She’s been texting me every day since. Lesson to be learned here is that most girls have “getting approached anxiety” when it’s a high smv dude. Also you should be getting tons of IOIs if this really is the case for you.

Whitefarmer · 2019-11-13T14:32:14+00:00

Walk like the world is your bitch. Woman 50 feet away will tingle. You are not what you think you are

FereallyRed · 2019-11-13T15:15:13+00:00

From your post history, you're a 31yo balding guy stuck at 27% bodyfat, an engineer with such poor social skills that nobody even listens to you.

So, no looks, no frame, and no game.

That means your SMV is shit.

Why do you care what women at work do anyway? Do women in your social life act the same? Do you have a social life? Do you pick up women?

PayneGreyWolf · 2019-11-13T19:47:47+00:00

"I'm good looking, muscular, my profile picture on reddit is a literal fedora and my username is the_seducer. Why am I not getting any play?"

Maybe you're not what you think you are. To me you seem creepy as fuck

Title	I am good looking, muscular, take care of me yet the girls of the other department do like they don’t see me when I walk.
Author	the_seducer
Upvotes	0
Comments	11
Date	November 13, 2019 1:43 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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