I used to have it in check, but I've been spending a lot of time with this one chick and I think I've started to develop oneitis. It's to a point where I know it's unhealthy for myself, but yet I can't help get lost in the emotions at times. I've been meditating everytime these emotions take over to detach myself and that has been helping a lot. I was wondering how you guys have managed to maintain a healthy, loving relationship while not letting your emotions get the best of you.