OK guys,

I somehow got linked to this thread, and read around a little bit, and decided to do yall need help. So I'm gonna do you a little favor and give you the solution to all of your problems.

First things first, you all talk about alphas and betas, this is not a genetic difference it is purely a state of mind.

So Rule 1, don’t whine about not being an “alpha”, and don’t talk about alphas and betas. A real alpha will never call himself that, or even bring it up at any time.

Rule 2 – confidence….. The difference between you and the guys you envy is confidence. You have none, they have lots. Why would a woman believe in a man who doesn’t believe in himself. From now on YOU ARE A BADASS. You are never wrong, you are never unsure. You wake up every morning, look at the mirror and say “I can do anything I set my mind to do”. Say it over and over until you believe it. You don’t need to pretend to be an alpha, you just need to have confidence in yourself. It’s much easier than it sounds, just believe.

Rule 3- fear of rejection. The thing that separates guys like me from guys like you is fear of rejection. I don’t care if a girl says no, it’s her loss, and I’ll ask another one. You’d be surprised with that attitude how little I get told no. So I have a little exercise for those of you who are serious about wanting to change and aren’t just here to bitch about it.

Go to a bar, night club, pretty much any place with alcohol by yourself at around 2 hours before whatever the last call in your area is. Now if you really want to be an alpha, here’s your training. Walk up to a group of girls and say “I can make you cum, who’s interested”. Now this is unlikely to work for you, since you have no confidence. I have done this myself and gotten plenty of women, but I say it like I mean it. For you this exercise is purely for you to realize that girls laughing at your, getting drinks thrown in your face, getting slapped is absolutely no big deal. So after you’re laughed at, or yelled at find another group of girls and try again. Keep doing it, it will build your confidence. I bet you, if you say that to every girl in the place, one will accept the challenge. If you do not ask, you do not get.

Rule 4 - looks don’t matter. Ever seen the ugly guy with a hot girlfriend? Ever seen your skinny short friend pull more woman than you? Sure a set of abs doesn’t hurt, but it’s not what women want. Women are attracted to confidence. Be confident, get laid. Don’t talk about your feelings, done ask her what she wants. Tell her what you’re going to do, walk up to that girl you like and say “I’m taking you on a date, I’ll pick you up at 7”. What’s the worse that could happen? She says no? So what? Not asking at all has the same result of you not having sex with her.

Rule 5 - Drop the bar. If you can’t get that girl you like by being her friend, (which never works) and you can’t get any good looking women, or maybe your really ugly or fat yourself, drop the damn bar. Go out and find a girl whose ugly, or fat, or has 1 eye and a limp, and bang her senseless. Next day, find a girl who has two good eyes. Next day, maybe one who’s pretty but hasn’t brushed her teeth in 3 months. Move yourself up the chain until your confidence is enough that you can get the caliber of girl you want.

You can’t just start jogging and expect to win the Olympic 50yrd sprint. You gotta train, so find yourself some training partners who are happy any guy with all his teeth asked them out. That’s lesson one, if yall go out and try this stuff and it works, let me know and maybe I’ll give yall more pointers on how to not fake but be a badass who does what he wants when he wants. There’s no reason you should sit around here pitying yourself, have confidence in yourself, take some chances and you will be surprised of what you’re capable of. I myself am never surprised because I know how awesome I am, and that I can do anything I set my mind to do.