Open relationships: Cucked or Alpha?

DoesItMatterTooYou · 2019-11-28T21:44:36+00:00

I will never again have an "open" relationship with a serious LTR. If she wants open then she is just a plate, not more.

There is zero upside for you.

cimsoc · 2019-11-28T20:42:25+00:00

Who the fuck cares? If you care what others think about your relationship, it’s beta. If you do what you want, because it makes you happy— it’s alpha.

serynada · 2019-11-28T21:51:34+00:00

a girl in an open relationship is a plate. your real question is “should i open up my wittle heart and, like, really connect, and like not be jealous when she does things i’m not cool with because like we are so close, you know? like can i love her and she love me so much but still let her fuck other guys?”

you need to read the sidebar.

serynada · 2019-11-28T21:53:16+00:00

“because you’re dominating so hard” lmao i’m gonna assume you’re not a troll you’re just so deeply blue-pilled that your* goal is to red-pill LARP your way into a blue pilled fantasy with your oneitis.

polarizingpotato · 2019-11-28T20:48:23+00:00

AMS preaches open relationships but I am not too sure myself.

If you spin plates, would it be better to let girls know you are in an open relationship?

Or do you just spin plates whilst also being in a relationship - therefore without them knowing? (Basically cheating)

FiveStarTendieDinner · 2019-11-28T21:19:50+00:00

Do whatever the fuck you want. The best open relationship is one man having a rotation of young women that may or may not know each other.

hoopingblob · 2019-11-28T21:38:02+00:00

Do what you want and cut that Alpha Beta shit.

oldslut · 2019-11-28T23:33:58+00:00

at best, she should be a plate--at best. you shouldn't be LTRing this chick that wants to go fuck other guys and have you beta boy, at home waiting to give her a kiss when she comes home from getting ass fucked and he finishes in her mouth.

Protocol_Apollo · 2019-11-29T00:06:36+00:00

Open on your end only is the best sexual strategy.

Open on both ends is typically just cucking since the woman is the one asking to open it up, she would only do to that to betas and since it’s much easier for her to get sex than a guy, it ends up as cucking in its purest form,

Red_Pill_Brotherhood · 2019-11-29T02:55:29+00:00

This isn't a one size fits all. It depends on what you want, your options, your setup and if you can actually handle your open LTR fucking other guys.

If youre a high value guy with options and you set it up that way from the beginning I think its fine. Otherwise, youre a cuck if your gf is the one to request opening things up.

Musicgoon · 2019-11-29T11:55:30+00:00

I'll give my informed 2cents here.

Ive been in open relationships before. The truth is one person in the relationship will get fucked over always. She will branch swing and leave you in the dust once she finds a new guy. Or just keep dating more and more new dudes. It doesn't stop until her hypergamy is satiated (never). And she will date a bunch of douchebags that will make you want to cringe or dump her immediately.

Open relationships don't work for me now because dread becomes overt. Most women will expect to date a bunch of guys. When a man is going out slaying and successfully finding partners faster than his partner, she will lose it. The drama will ensue and then the hassles from her will get bad. So bad that a nexting will be mandatory.

Now whatch what you say. When you use phrases like she will ,"let", you sleep with other women..... WTF?? Did you hand this bitch your balls? Do you need to ask Mommy to pee standing up?

I'm a grown man. I decide who I fuck, who I see, where I go, and how I spend my hard earned money. If some woman thinks I need her permission for ANYTHING, she's sadly mistaken. Be aware of whose frame you're operating in.

JimmyHILFIGER · 2019-11-29T19:16:17+00:00

Literally cuck.

In fact, if your woman even suggests something like that, you're already a beta.

Title	Open relationships: Cucked or Alpha?
Author	diarrhetic_diegesis
Upvotes	1
Comments	29
Date	November 28, 2019 8:39 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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