Guy friend fucking with me

MrSpearmint · 2019-12-04T21:30:55+00:00

Don’t cut him in the first phase imo. Just tell him “let’s not talk about that topic anymore man” in private. If he continues bringing the topic ( which I don’t think he will), then you can cut him off.

DoesItMatterTooYou · 2019-12-04T22:20:08+00:00

I called down a bro on some shit like that in the group (lunch hang out) and flat told him he wasn't going to say shit like that to me ever again. He hasn't.

On the flip side I hold myself to the same standards and am positive with my friends.

kclanton80 · 2019-12-04T23:59:33+00:00

guy is not your friend. Act accordingly.

VasiliyZaitzev · 2019-12-04T23:37:56+00:00

Faggot needs a Code: RED about talking out of school. Private shit is to remain private.

serynada · 2019-12-04T21:27:08+00:00

cut him off for good.

stop spilling emotions to untrustworthy people.

fannyfire · 2019-12-05T01:29:58+00:00

Honestly man, the reason why I started posting on the MRP and askMRP sub is because your friends cannot be trusted. I have known my best buds for a fucking decade now and they can't keep a secret for shit man. Letting your friends know about your problems is the worst thing you can do. Get a therapist, join a support group, but ffs man don't go telling your friends your inner secrets. They're just going to gossip behind your back and once pandora's box is open everybody's going to finger fuck it.

BajaGhia · 2019-12-05T01:30:27+00:00

Ain't cool bein no jive Turkey, so close to thanksgivin.

Domebeers · 2019-12-05T17:32:30+00:00

How do you deal with basic male friendship? Not being autistic helps...

Have you ever had friends before, OP?

Don_Draper27 · 2019-12-05T17:44:12+00:00

In the immediate situation, best thing you can do is own it and not react.

"It is better to keep your mouth closed and let people think you are a fool than to open it and remove all doubt" - Mark Twain

Like others have said, firmly tell the dude that you talked to him in trust and to refrain from bringing it up again.

Take some responsibility though. Don't drink if you're going to be spilling out your secrets.

skuttt · 2019-12-05T22:48:42+00:00

Not a friend. Next him.

HurricaneHugues · 2019-12-07T02:16:27+00:00

You thought you had a friend, but the imposter revealed himself. Trust nobody. Cut him off.

mr-satan · 2019-12-04T23:48:42+00:00

Theres a reason why women cant maintain friendships and men can. Anyone that tells you to "cut him off" doesn't understand how men's relationships work.

Pull him aside and just be cool about it with him, tell him to keep it private.

Title	Guy friend fucking with me
Author	inrgiure
Upvotes	18
Comments	27
Date	December 4, 2019 9:16 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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