Like the don't respond straigh away, be unavailable. The whole self improvement, get hobbies thing makes sense bit then its like don't drop them stuff u do to make time for her, and it gets girls attracted to u.

Like why does always answering a message immediately, mean the attraction isn't there. Like if I get left on read or ignored for hours on end. I don't think "ph fucking sexy" I get annoyed.... n kinda sad cause my mental health is fucked... but still why is not being available attractive?

Like i read a post about a guy who, when he was with his first gf, found out she thought her ex was "bigger" n he proceeded to find out every little detail, the insecurities started to get to him. Makes sense, insecurities aren't attractive, vut he then proceeds to talk about screwing other girls n how he doesn't fixate on whst she thinks of him during it, he's just in the moment and he old enough to know that she's enjoying it. How the selfish nature is a turn on. It's pseudo-psycology but like it works?

Even curt richie talks about how he used to respond immediately and give people attention and how they just ignored him but he stopped that and responds slower n plays these "games" n it works.

Why does it fucking work?

P.s. curt isn't a redpill youtuber but just someone who i watch on a regular basis n one of his vids gave me tbis vibe