I’m on a second marriage with 4 unplanned kids from the first one while she was ‘on birth control’ and I was abstaining.. had sex with her four times over six years (twice while being woken from a sound sleep at about 3am after a 14 hour work day) and got my three younger ones out of it. After divorce she gave me an ultimatum to ‘clean out Our storage unit or she was letting it go to collections.. so like a good little ex-husband I cleaned it out. Boy did I find some crap. The best piece was a calendar of her cycle dating back 7 years.. there were Xs and Os on all the days she was on her period and then ovulating.. I subtracted 9 months off of my kids b-days and found out those 4 times fell in the Os section of her calendar. This Woman claims to be a devout Christian and attends church several times a week, yet once I left, she turned all of her hate and abuse on my children. The tragedy is that in this feminist permeated court system, nearly $100,000 has just barely Kept me from losing the right to see my kids.. because of frivolous, false, and undocumented accusations against me.. even with proven horrible physical and sexual abuse against the mother.

After the first divorce, I remarried 4 months later.. in an attempt to ‘Set a good example for my children, and keep from living in sin.’ Side Note: (My own fixation on sex was the real issue here and Marriage is NEVER the solution for this.) She’s 10 years younger.. a little more sane, prettier, a bit nicer, but 4 years into marriage has become a card carrying feminist. I was too butt hurt and naive to notice the red flags when we married. Over the past year I’ve taken about 10 red pills and begun to reclaim the man and leader I was created to be. This intentional change has been revolutionary for me in every way— Physically, Mentally, Spiritually— in spite of the conflict that ensues with every step I take forward. This one will end in flames eventually too unless she miraculously gets with the program.

I’ve been a late bloomer and a slow learner... and my mission now is to hopefully keep young guys from repeating history. Marriage isn’t for everyone and western society has Destroyed the proper role of women in the home.. think long and hard.. and ask lots of questions from those older and more experienced than you before engaging in an LTR.

Find a woman who WANTS TO BE A WIFE... a homemaker; a mother; a woman that Wants to cook and clean; a woman who understands her value and contribution in the relationship; a woman who isn’t addicted to the overvaluation given by social media; a woman treats her father with love, gentleness, respect; a woman who shows you in the early stages of the relationship that she will extend the same respect to you. This sounds old-fashioned and archaic, but it’s the only way that a marriage will last for the long term.