Hey all! first time poster here

States: Body Fat 15%, Height 6", Weight: 175; Lifts:3-5 a week, hoping to increase it to daily but because of work it is hard

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Reading: Have read NNMNG, that's about it

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Finanaces: about to graduate next semester, no job promised yet will see in my internship starting in a few weeks; currently work retail, no debt

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Spiritual: I'd say 7/10, I lead bible ministry on campus and with my circle of friends in my community so I am a leader in terms of my social circle; I have prayer and quite time every day, average of 30 minutes to an hour; I have a handful of scripture memorized, mainly NT

Mission: I know I want to be a leader in some way in the church (a pastor most likely) just not sure how or where at the moment ​

Here's my issue, Girlfriend is going overseas to study abroad for 2 weeks, I heard stories of GF's doing crazy things over there and most end up cheating on their BF's, some of my bro's says it happens, I am a little worried as my gf is 19 (I''m 22) and I'm her first everything, I don't know if she can overcome being tempted in that scenario, she's very outgoing and at times naive and cannot notice if guys are flirting with her, tbh, I fear that she may make a "mistake" because she's inexperienced, is this my insecurity speaking? Other then her being really sociable She hasn't done anything that would cause me to not trust her, she's honest and a God fearing women, doesn't party, drink, virgin etc; but will that change if she's in a whole new environment? am I being cynical?

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What concerns me is that she wants to go on a few study abroad trips at this point in our relationship (one year)...I even turned down going abroad for her (she said we should go together next year when I have enough funds, to be fair my trip was just a leisurely trip, not a study abroad) She did say she understands and that I can go abroad without her after explaining I felt miffed about turning down my chance to go. I just find that a bit strange if you're in a serious relationship you would take all the chances you can to study abroad, in her defense she says its for her studies, for her to learn more in her field ; we have even made plans for engagement (in the upcoming year) (also she was home school for most, not all for her education)

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My gut feeling is telling me something may happen, but I don't find any evidence of that being a possibility, only weird thing is that she wants to go on these trips and she hasn't really asked me how I feel about her going abroad. (EDIT: she has one time said she thought of ways of me coming along but said that it wouldn't be wise for me financially, she has a point as I don't have enough money to go with her, she's on a scholarship)

Also the fact that most of her classmates that are going are guys, one female acquaintance of her may go but that’s unsure, so 60% she will be the only female (disregarding faculty of course, one female teacher is also going, but I’m talking among fellow peers)

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If I’m overthinking, please slap some sense into me fellow brothers, I’m not usually like this I just feel weird thats all

TL;DR, Girlfriend wants to go on a few study abroads trips, both lasting 2 weeks, fear that she might succumb to temptation because its her first time in that environment (no accountability), am I worrying for nothing, is this insecurity?