Why should someone risk having a relationship for being with someone who will never love you? What's the point of wasting all this emotional labor and all of this energy on someone who will never love you? I know WHY they are like that but at the same time men don't care why their girlfriend is giving them less sex than the last guy. If you give me less love than the last girl I see it as you loving the other girl more than me. Why shouldn't a woman be single and share expenses with room mates rather than start a family with someone who will never love or marry her?