I was watching an AMS clip where he talked about some guys can be rich and have status yet no sex appeal. An example he used was the difference in how women would see Chris Rock and Denzel Washington. They’d rather fuck the latter right off the bat because Chris Rock just doesn’t have that “being”

In my experience, when I walk into a room women will react to me like they want to fuck me. I have a great physique + walk so it’s not abnormal for them to check me out. But once I speak they lose all that attraction because I’m on the timid side and I never initiate flirting whatsoever.

I don’t want to be in calibrated when I flirt so I just avoid it all together. I just want to figure out how to add that sex appeal to my personality the proper way.