deleting girls on social media to escape orbiter land?

askyournan · 2020-01-14T16:58:59+00:00

Just ignore them. As long as you keep working on yourself and strife to be the best version of yourself. That’s what matters. But you can if you feel they are gossips and you don’t want them in your personal life.

majorketone · 2020-01-14T18:24:13+00:00

If you or anyone else on here sees someone viewing your snapchat or instagram story as an IOI, you are autistic. They don't "oddly religiously watch everything I post", they are just constantly on their phones like most people nowadays and watching snapchat stories is something they can mindlessly click through.

Do what you want but you're lying to yourself if you think dozens of girls are waiting around every day for when you post a story so they can watch. If they respond to them that's another story but it doesn't sound like it from the OP. Theres no point in deleting them from social media unless you're hard nexting. Stop caring about this shit so much

NO_TIP_JUST_SHAFT · 2020-01-14T17:14:44+00:00

What would be the point of you removing them? Are you hoping they will text you asking why you removed them? You would delete them for the wrong reasons, you are seeking a reaction.

They probably won't notice it anyway.

If you really had an abundance mindset you probably wouldn't even care whether or not you have them on snapchat.

Rkingpin · 2020-01-14T19:37:08+00:00

I like to meet girls from cold approach. I collect snapchat/digits. If they are not enthusiastic to meet me I delete their existence from my phone.

muricanwerewolf1 · 2020-01-14T19:42:18+00:00

Since you’re not interacting with them in a way that’s detrimental there’s no reason to get rid of them. And you never know when one will decide to slide into the ol’ DMs, I’ve had it happen a couple times where the girl messaged out of the blue and it led to sex.

IXseed · 2020-01-14T20:07:42+00:00

Cut em out but do it for a reason and not to force a reaction. Like if you really wanna tighten up your social circle go ahead but don't do it (or not do it) if you're trying to get puss.

Remember you're only orbiting if you're actively giving women your TIME online with no hope for sex. If they checking in on you and you pay them no mind in return that's all good.

HurricaneHugues · 2020-01-15T03:17:12+00:00

Explain to me the purpose of keeping people you don't interact with on your social media. It serves ZERO purpose. Just delete them.

pilot333 · 2020-01-15T03:38:59+00:00

Tighten your circle. If these girls care for you they'll add you back. If not, then it's decluttering and not having it constantly on your mind "will these girls fuck me in the future."

Opperkech69 · 2020-01-14T20:31:21+00:00

I never post or snap on snapchat. I reply to snaps with short chat messages about once a week. I do it for two reasons:

I like receiving those snaps. Like to keep a little easy contact with friends.
Works wonders when you receive a snapchats from other girls you barely hang out with while laying in bed with another girl.

Snowboard18 · 2020-01-14T21:27:31+00:00

I don't consider just having girls on snapchat orbiting but, if you replying to their stories or constantly snapping them, then ya orbiting. There no need to remove them, just let them keep watching your snapchat stories, they might even reply and that could lead somewhere.

Foolishoe · 2020-01-14T22:45:32+00:00

They aren't talking so cut them loose.

basilisk_girth · 2020-01-14T23:38:46+00:00

If you might need something from them (maybe you are in the same social circles), just put them on ‘mute’ if it’s Instagram, you won’t see what they post, basically forgetting them, it works for me.

pilot333 · 2020-01-14T23:56:15+00:00

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holddadoorhodor · 2020-01-14T16:55:56+00:00

20 are intending to fuck you. How many of those 20 have you fucked in the last six months?

Toowhammy · 2020-01-14T20:16:59+00:00

No. Remove social media. I can’t take someone seriously as a grown man when they are on social media. And I don’t how they can look in the mirror with self respect.

Title	deleting girls on social media to escape orbiter land?
Author	pilot333
Upvotes	16
Comments	44
Date	January 14, 2020 4:52 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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