My conversation with a girl about ways of thinking.

MattyAnon · 2015-04-08T17:11:38+00:00

I'm increasingly noticing women are perpetually engaging in a powerplay against men and reality - everything they say is designed to get something. All the shit tests have a purpose, and that purpose is to get something. Objective reality is just an inconvenience to be worked around, denied, shouted down and power-talked around in order that she *gets something.

And it's not very cleverly thought out. It changes minute to minute in order to help her get what she wants right then. The woman you talked to is at least honest about this. Most pretend they have super female-intution and will pretend to have much more carefully thought out opinions than they really do.

[deleted] · 2015-04-08T17:41:46+00:00

Men have Logic and Reason.

Women have Feelings and Emotions.

That's about all you need to know.

Melvin Udall in As Good As It Gets when asked by a female fan of his books how he writes female characters so well: "I think of a man, and I take away Reason and Accountability."

blacwidonsfw · 2015-04-08T16:48:31+00:00

Women choose between options. Men carve their own fate.

clearerwaters · 2015-04-08T18:05:19+00:00

Your decision making is as good as it's been honed and has had to be.

Men are raised with expectations. Women are raised with a safety net of daddy, government, and white knights. It manifests in their ability to perform critical thinking later in life. I'll go a step further -- the most prudent women I know are ugly. There's no captain save a ho for girls who look like Whoopi Goldberg.

[deleted] · 2015-04-08T23:14:47+00:00

There you have a FR illustrating how men act on their logic and women act on their feelings.

It's good to be reminded of it again and again and again because this is such a fundamental difference on how we operate, that it's one of the biggest obstacles to understand them.

I'm very analytical myself and I keep turning discussion with girls into arguments because I keep forgetting that they are not analytical. I say "I've read recently how they've made scientific studies of X and discovered that ..." and they answer "Oh benzamtrp, you've got to stop getting your opinion from books!" and then I remember how they actually think...

Mihawk01 · 2015-04-08T21:11:19+00:00

She just chills when making decisions.

Sometimes for guys, this is very good to do. Just when you end up playing games 24/7, you know you need to change your decision making.

Aaron565 · 2015-04-08T19:41:26+00:00

The correct response to this behavior is utter disappointment. How would you treat a child that follows similar thought patterns?

Poldonis · 2015-04-08T15:39:44+00:00

Its neither, she's following the hamster

OurMindsLiveOn · 2015-04-08T18:44:32+00:00

This is discussed very well on the masculine principle on the no maam blog (under women: the most responsable teenager in the sidebar). a man's brain is connected more linearly (front to back) a woman's more laterally (left to right). This is why men are more logical, while women more intuitive. It shows the correlation and explains it much better than I can.

savatebot · 2015-04-08T20:45:14+00:00

Women obviously think differently from men, but this can be good or bad depending on the situation. I love to see my gf's face light up about something she enjoys, and I love the passion she puts into her projects. However, I would not expect her to, for example, handle a complaint at a restaurant or about some other service. In the beginning of our relationship, I would let her rant to me about such problems, and it would sometimes escalate into her calling someone, ending up in a shouting match and sometimes tears on her end, with me finally taking over and spending some time afterwards comforting her. Not saying this happened all the time, but enough that I figured out something- women are great for emotional feedback, but terrible in negotiations that require a level head. These days, if she has a problem- if someone harassed her or some shit- she comes to me first and I will talk it over with the offending party. But mostly I wholly appreciate her emotion-driven nature. You just have to learn what the strengths and weaknesses are of such a nature.

krakosia · 2015-04-09T03:25:43+00:00

You make a wrong choice you suffer the consequences, she makes the wrong choice she gets a pussypass. You have for all of your life learned subconsciously that you need to decide for yourself and times when you don't no one comes in to save your ass. It works differently for girls. They learn at a very early age that for whatever reason their "decisions" don't really have consequences. If something bad does come her way or something bad happens to someone or something because of her action then she gets a let. When this happens enough number of times the brain muscles required to think analytically are just not there. Hence what the girl told you.

Elodrian · 2015-04-08T17:38:04+00:00

If I may generalize this conversation to sexes, my conclusion [...]

You may not. A sample size of one is nowhere near the kind of rigour you need to arrive at a sweeping conclusion about the human condition.

Title	My conversation with a girl about ways of thinking.
Author	fakeAk
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Date	April 8, 2015 2:40 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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