Am I a pussy for not liking women with masculine hobbies or is that my gut telling me something?

PracticalMaximum · 2020-01-23T08:22:04+00:00

More like a preference than a Red flag. Nothing îs wrong with having a hobby. My gf has masculine hobbies as well and i really like that

Pdubzilla- · 2020-01-23T13:28:41+00:00

You are overthinking everything.

It is really simple.

If attractive, then bang, otherwise don't. Stop worrying about all these pointless details.

Get out of your head and into your balls.

TheUnReasonableMan44 · 2020-01-23T16:16:47+00:00

First off what is a feminine or masculine hobby?

Anything a women can do as a hobby a man can do better.

So who really cares if a girl does things that you think are too masculine for her as a hobby. If she is still feminine while outside of those hobbies then it's not a red flag.

Does she go hunt and then take the meat home and make you a bomb ass dinner? Still feminine.

After she gets dirty crawling under the car does she clean up, put on a dress, heels and a full face of make up and go out with you? Still feminine.

We don't live in the dark ages anymore where hobbies are exclusively masculine or feminine. The actual act of participating in a hobby doesn't make some one masculine or feminine. It's how they behave that determines that.

Now, all this aside... women don't cultivate hobbies of their own accord. Any hobby a women has taken up, outside the traditional homemaker skills, they were taught by a man. Either a father figure/family member or guy she fucked.

I've never seen a girl just up and decide on her own that she wants to learn to hunt. Some dude she was fucking was super into hunting so she tagged along as a way to spend time with him and learned it that way.

Girls don't decide to learn to fix cars. Fixing cars was something their dad did and that was how they spent time with him.

Does that make them inherently flawed or raise red flags? IDK, that's for you to decide. But my take based on your question and answers is that you feel threatened if a girl is good at something "masculine" and you aren't.

pilot333 · 2020-01-23T15:13:15+00:00

Most women with masculine hobbies are either low value or if they’re high value they’re trying to collect orbiters and validation, usually on their social media.

2020-01-23T14:09:14+00:00

I am not sure a hobby in particular makes a woman feminine or not. A basic bitch thot is more feminine than a sweet girl that defers to you 1950 style because she likes to shoot a gun or likes a fast car?

Red_Pill_Brotherhood · 2020-01-23T15:12:43+00:00

Nothing wrong with it. You just aren't attracted to women having masculine hobbies.

fannyfire · 2020-01-23T13:40:28+00:00

Sounds like you’re insecure.

555654t456555 · 2020-01-23T14:24:21+00:00

Women with hobbies where they’re surrounded by men often do so intentionally and are just attention-seeking whores. Could also be something their dad showed them how to do.

failingtheturingtest · 2020-01-23T11:40:29+00:00

It seems like you're very insecure about your own masculinity. I say this because you've pointed out a number of times that it's "more so when she is more into it / has done it longer than you".

Maybe spend a bit of time reflecting on that. Think of a bloke who you think is the epitome of masculinity. Would HE think this girl is too masculine? Or would he just like that she's into something he's into.

Title	Am I a pussy for not liking women with masculine hobbies or is that my gut telling me something?
Author	Former-Rabbit
Upvotes	2
Comments	18
Date	January 23, 2020 8:12 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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