“Idk if I’m overthinking but that hurt my feelings” is what she texted me

We were on ft and I told her to come over, she said ok but I can’t have sex, she didn’t exactly say why but I’m guessing uti/yeast infection and she’s self conscious, so I said it was probably best to wait till she feels better, now she’s saying I hurt her feelings.

I’m thinking of replying “nah you’re definitely overthinking it” and hoping the plate doesn’t break yet, but honestly a “what are we” was feeling due and I didn’t think she would survive it. Any tips?