i have a huge issue with women and don’t know how to handle it

Tyler_Gatsby · 2020-10-27T16:11:48+00:00

Try posting on r/Bropill.

This isn't an advice sub and your post will be removed.

Asbelowsoaboveme · 2020-10-27T16:24:04+00:00

Try therapy

2020-10-27T16:39:20+00:00

Howdy!

This is not an advice sub, but please make sure to ask for help in the proper places. You're going through tough stuff and you should focus on your wellbeing first and foremost. Without that base it's hard to address other problems you're having, whether it be in regards to women or other things.

Take care of yourself, OK? Make sure to ask others for help if you need it.

Tyler_Gatsby · 2020-10-27T16:32:48+00:00

Well somebody needs to say it: You just need to actually sleep with another woman to help get you out of this rut, and get some confidence and comfort with women back.

I get you are worried about catching feels, and I don't want to cause you more heartache. You should probably go ahead and do the single mama though. Just realize if you two aren't sleeping together - she's probably sleeping with somebody. That doesn't mean you can't knock him out of his provider though, and take his place as her go to guy.

Cimorene86 · 2020-10-27T16:15:17+00:00

At first I thought you might be fake, but profile checks out. You've kinda thrown up a giant wall of text though, so what are 2-3 actual questions you want to talk about?

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Mult1Lay3rP3rc3ptr0n · 2020-10-27T16:25:24+00:00

Relax brother. Thousands of young men have gone through what you're going through right now. The pain of truth can take a long time to heal. Unfortunately, there's no easy way around it, you must go through it yourself in order to emerge a better man.

First of all, the fact that you are in a position where you're still attracting girls is a great thing. This gives you an opportunity to overcome your personal issues quicker.

While I would personally stay away from single mothers, there's no reason you can't have a casual relationship with her (obviously make this clear to her; don't lie about your intentions). If you choose to go this route, its imperative that you keep talking/seeking out other girls. What you're doing here is trial by fire - overcoming your propensity to catch feelings/oneitis by hard practice. You may get burned again in this case, so be warned.

The other option is to go full monk mode and give yourself time to heal - a lot of these "first love" types of oneitis situations can take a lot longer than 7 months to recover. Keep interacting with women as you do (both romantically as well as platonically, even if you don't end up dating/sleeping with any) as this will help you build an abundance mentality similar to the first option.

Ultimately you just need time. Either by seeing other people and building up a better frame of mind, or removing yourself completely and continuing your self improvement until your mental state is better.

It sounds like you're still in the anger phase of TRP. With time and practice, the anger will lessen and turn into calm acceptance. It's at this point that your relationships with women will no longer be soured by the anger and hate that you're currently experiencing now, and your life will be much better for it.

2020-10-27T16:35:56+00:00

Over analysis causes paralysis.

Any decision in life is going to have it's risks and rewards. You need to work on your resiliency skills.

NinjaOfTheSouth · 2020-10-27T16:36:37+00:00

Do what makes you happy dude. Worry about your own feelings and well being first

HOLYREGIME · 2020-10-27T16:36:49+00:00

Everyday I have thoughts in my mind about fuck women this and I don’t need anyone and that’s not healthy.

Id like to point out that you are farther along than most women tbh. They think saying this about men is healthy and the right thing to do. I’m looking at you FDS.

At least you can recognize this, they’re still struggling after 30-40 years.

Danielsavv · 2020-10-27T16:49:23+00:00

My bad i didn’t know this wasn’t a advice sub. I normally post on TRP page but i thought posting here would give me better advice

Mrs_Drgree · 2020-10-27T16:53:43+00:00

No advice posts.

throw-away-1709 · 2020-10-27T17:00:03+00:00

You are wrong.

Cure the old oneitis first.

Write her name on a postcard. Burn it. Look into the flames and feen where are feelings left.

Repeat until free of 'feeeeelllllsssss'.

For the future

Women are AWALT. It's a biological thing.

But you have to handle it.

A flower is a flower. If you expect the flower to be a psychologist you can talk to the flower but the flower will be still a flower.

But if you care for the flower, water it and cut it it will add to your life and blossom beside you.

Work on your self.

Doctor99268 · 2020-10-27T16:27:54+00:00

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Title	i have a huge issue with women and don’t know how to handle it
Author	Danielsavv
Upvotes	2
Comments	27
Date	October 27, 2020 4:07 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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