I'm really scared of women after my first small relationship, not joking. How do I overcome this fear?

Talinor09 · 2020-11-30T10:31:30+00:00

You’re letting fear dictate your actions in order to protect your heart/ego.

You need to let go of that. The first step is to accept it and rebuild yourself. Learn from your mistakes and grow into a better man.

Better higher quality men attract better higher quality women. It’s that simple.

Unlikely_Composer · 2020-11-30T13:12:50+00:00

AWALT.

Focus on yourself, nobody else matters. Once you get hurt enough, it becomes impossible to get hurt.

UserAgent99 · 2020-11-30T15:17:49+00:00

Tldr; at the top. Get some fucking professional hell, and leave your ex alone. Stop dwelling on the past and for fucksake, stop raw dogging $50 Asian hookers

In your case, yes you are weak, yes you did everything conceivably wrong, and continue to do so.

Remember when your doctor prescribed you anti psychotic meds, and said that you need therapy which you never bothered with

Well here’s the copy pasta from the rest of response and for those who think they’re helping him by reaffirming his deranged world view while he continues to stalk and harass this chick he ‘dated’ for 2 months, nearly two years ago. Prior to that he was a virgin at age 26

The only person here with BPD /NPD is the OP. And even though this is TRP. The ‘ex’ sure as hell dodged a DV killing with this guy.

Annnnndd he’s back, he’s had to resort to buying cracked and stolen reddit and Facebook accounts as he keeps getting banned. I think it was two weeks ago by this account or maybe it was the other that he was stating how he misses her and can’t get over her at all

What his game plan is? Who knows. He just wants sympathy and a pat on the shoulder and to make up stories.

For what ever reason OP keeps deleting his posts (or they’re getting deleted but the following pretty much sums it up if you didn’t bother to check his already cucked post history)

Do you ever give up ? What answer are you looking for. Here’s one. You are the epitome of red flags. You’re so far below beta, that you can’t even be called male. No wonder she dumped your crazy ass.

You got dumped by her over 18 months ago, and you’re still pining on about her. Stop stalking her, stop following her, stop abusing her on social media. Remember she reported you to the cops.

You need some serious medical intervention dude, and probably some time in the psyche ward

You need to work on your mental issues, address your skinny fat thing so your shrivelled penis (yes he’s posted it after asking if this is herpes from a paid whore he fucked the night before) Own your 5’6 balding, underbite and workout. Trying and increase your value from a -10 to at least a 2. And try getting a job you can stick at for more than a month before complaining about it, and how the people there think you’re weird and antisocial

You may remember the OP as posting from one of the many various accounts below, whether it’s him going on in asktrp, gambling, hairloss and side effects, to posting pics of his junk with ‘spots’ asking if it’s herpes after he slept with a sex worker the night before, to continually going on about his ex of over two years ago, ragging on her, then pining over her, never taking the advice offered by people, to stalking her.

He’s now progressed to buying ‘established accounts’ both Reddit and Facebook after being banned from both platforms.

Please be very careful with the advice and support provided to him as it may eventually support his world view, and we end up with him being front page news in a Melbourne after his ex goes missing

These are his other accounts, half of which have been banned or deleted now. If I’ve missed any, or you’ve picked up any others - pretty easy to determine his writing style and content feel free to keep me know.

mgtowalternate · 2020-11-30T13:17:35+00:00

Avoid emotional attachment which is not as easy as it sounds but talking to multiple women at the same time helps. As soon as you find yourself catching feelings for one girl, pull back.

It's the only way I do relationships now. Once you understand women I don't see any other strategy worthwhile

throwawayok272728492 · 2020-11-30T13:30:29+00:00

You’ll be fine man. The thing is whatever feelings you had for her, you can have with another woman that is a better fit for you. You said in the beginning she was a full on tinder slut so avoid those in the future for LTR. While I hope that this is obvious now it’s up to you to not do it again. Tinder is not the platform to find a LTR but there is maybe one in a million out there that is a decent girl. I wouldn’t specifically hold out for them though.

forgotten_orc · 2020-11-30T15:16:00+00:00

Not women's fault you were dating a skank man. You knew what you're getting yourself into, so be grateful for the experience, the sex and realise that it's your own fault for getting attached. Use it to build yourself up, if necessary try to forgive her and move on completely, the emotions will linger for a while but take heart in knowing every man goes through heartbreak, it's a timeless rite of passage.

JonnyStecchino7 · 2020-11-30T16:38:54+00:00

A lot of people here have had similar stories/problems.

Sounds like you got a lot of Red Pill work to do. Enjoy the journey brother.

Godspeed.

vandaalen · 2020-11-30T11:10:02+00:00

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Title	I'm really scared of women after my first small relationship, not joking. How do I overcome this fear?
Author	throwsad39
Upvotes	2
Comments	13
Date	November 30, 2020 10:13 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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