This weekend was taking a CEU class for one of my jobs. Met a woman who was blatantly flirting with me the entire weekend. We went out to dinner last night.

I take her back to her car. We flirt a bit more. I go in for a kiss and she kisses me. We kissed a few more times but did not make out. Got some ASD. Now, I did say "If the answer is No, just say no and i'll stop". Multiple times. She didn't she didn't say no. She was wearing a very low cut top with her breasts displayed. I did kiss them (they were not exposed) twice.

I asked her if she wanted to continue at her motel she said no. At this point the crazy meter was going to far into the Red Zone for my liking, so I decided to back off (just a feeling I had). I told her if she changes her mind, to contact me. And we both left.

Her text this morning stated "... I'm disappointed you came onto me. I thought we were (about the class we took) sharing an experience. It was an unpleasant surprise."

Not sure if she felt rejected or if the cheese is about to slide off the cracker.

What do I do?

I'm guessing I should ignore the text?

What else?

Just need some reassurance. I'm an old, balding, fat, beta who's been soaking this stuff in and learning. I've never had a response like this before.

Usually I don't move fast enough.

I'm very well known in 2 fields and just kind of nervous about this. I know it's part of being RP and that RP is not for the faint of heart. Just wondering how to handle it?