Since I turned 18 I have been addicted to tinder and have met my fair share of lvm, and gotten my heart broken. Yet I could never get off tinder because dating was so addicting and I constantly needed that validation.

Last relationship I had was one of the best boyfriends I’ve had compared to my string of lvm but definitely still a nvm, and I met him around the time I started lurking on fds, and after 8 months I wanted to fds properly so I eventually broke up with him.

After I trusted my gut feeling and broke up with him, he revealed his true colours and was really mean and nasty. i followed fds and just simply blocked him and tried my best to move on and you’re right. He didn’t respect me so he kept on contacting me after saying he was sorry through my email. If it was prior me I think I would have taken him back but I decided to keep him blocked and not respond.

Obviously it was hard but 3 months after I have been SO happy on my own and I don’t feel lonely! I feel so peaceful even though around this time my pmdd would act up and I would have anxiety attacks so far the only time i cry is when I watch good heartfelt movies or dog videos and I have never been this mentally at peace for the past 6 years. Thank you fds. I obviously still have a long time to go but tinder is definitely not it and hookups are not it.

Thank you 😻