A few years ago when I was still in college there was a hot girl in one of my classes. Tried to talk to her a bunch and it just never went anywhere. Completely disinterested, on her phone, etc. Semester ended, never saw her again.

Fast forward to 2020. I've done alright for myself since, but not as well as I should have been doing. Found this page just looking for advice on a situation and it's been eye opening. Been following the advice and putting it to practice.

Anyway I've been hooking up with some girl since late August. We're out a few weeks ago and she says her friend and her date are at the bar next door. They come by and meet us. Her friend is the hot girl from class years back. Has no clue who I am, but she's a completely different person. Laughing, nervous, excited, etc.

She goes to the bathroom with my date and says she wish she didn't come. Said I was so much fun, confident, good looking, and had great energy to the point where I made her date look boring and out of place, ruining her thing with him.

So I'm out with my buddies last night at a bar and I run into her. She's been drinking and she mentions that the girl I've been seeing is extremely lucky. I playfully say yeah why's that. She goes into the same stuff mentioned above and says her friend likes me but thinks I have other options. She says "I think she's right" and puts a hand on my chest.

It doesn't go any further than that. I have very little interest in starting drama between friends but the complete 180 was mind-blowing. Same girl who wouldn't give me a second thought a few years ago and didn't even recognize me was now willing to go behind her friends back and flirt with me in public like that.

There's no real point to this story. But this place is a goldmine and had I never found it I'd still be trying to get the attention of hot girls instead of being able to walk away from hot girls for no reason other than I didn't feel like it. So thanks to those who contribute.

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Edit: Thought the change would be implied but it was a confidence, frame and presence change. Being less agreeable and more confident in saying what I want to say. Passing shit tests, not caving when being called out, ignoring stupid comments, and just in general more outgoing and less fucks given about what others think. Post wasn't intended to be a humblebrag, more as a there are a shitload of useful tools on here. Wish I found this place sooner.