(First off a huge shoutout to this community. Over the last couple years or so I’ve lost around 60+ pounds. Now that I’m no longer fat I actually look good and feel good as well. Because of this I’ve been sparking interest in females like crazy. I’ve never had females be interested in me ever. But things have changed a lot since the weight loss. I really owe this sub a lot and I appreciate you all).

I follow and listen to a lot of people on these forums and I feel like I still have a serious issue. I cannot manage to text well at all, not even enough to escalate. In person I can speak, escalate, power talk, in general keep the conversation alive. But over text I am helpless. I hate texting and would rather not text at all. But a lot of girls text through the day while we are both busy. So I’d really like to know how you are able to text well and keep a conversation going.

Side note: I know everyone here says texting is a waste and it’s either in person or nothing. But this issue extends far past my female issue. I suck at texting friends and just everyone in general.