TLDR Summary:

Maintaining your frame is extremely important when confronted by angry cows. They will enter your frame when they can't get you to enter theirs.

Body:

2 plates, A and B, found out about each other through a mutual acquaintance. Both contacted me to voice their displeasure. I maintained frame and didn't cave when they pressured me to either become exclusive or lose them. I ended both conversations assuming I wouldn't see them again, and I immediately picked up a couple other plates. After a week of zero contact, plate A had her friend text me to ask why I was "such an asshole." I responded concisely and professionally to her querries. Half an hour later plate A contacted me asking if she could see me. Went out for drinks, explained I'm not ready to be exclusive, took her home and fucked her. Plate is now a better plate than before because she realizes how easily she could "lose" her alpha.

Plate B held out for 2 weeks before contacting me, apologizing for over reacting. I dismissed it and immediately initiated flirting as if nothing had happened. She told me to "get my girls under control" because they "stalked her," but she didn't voice any objection to going out for drinks with me soon, or any objections to be having plates. I'm 99% sure based on our conversation that she will be DTF next time I see her.

Both of these women know full well that I'm fucking other women. They have both asked or verbally assumed that there are in fact multiple other women. Being amused, straightforward and cocky has proven to be an effective way to dismiss their questions. They don't test me about other women anymore.

Went to a party with A recently. Her friend is hotter than she is, and definitely gave me IOIs during the party. She was there with another guy who displayed some alpha traits, but by the end of the party he had completely yielded his position to me. I was flirting with the girl he brought as well as my plate, walking around shirtless, sitting on other girls laps... basically not giving a fuck about anything. After the party while my plate and I were fucking, she asked me why I was flirting with her friend. I gave her a sly grin and replied that I liked her tattoos and we were talking about that. She brought it up two more times that night, both times I blew her off. Since then, she's been even more forward about how good sex with me is and how badly she wants it. A little dread game really does go a long way, boys.

Lesson:

Keep reading the sidebar, men. Maintain frame, be ready to walk away from a plate at any time. Stay in control of your emotions, and you'll stay in control of hers. Dread game will make her want your dick, so use it but don't abuse it. Above all, do what makes you happy.

Go forth and Alpha, my bros.