I can't find someone to take care of me, I have nothing to offer but I deserve LOVE!!!

sleepyweaselisawake · 2019-09-09T18:27:48+00:00

Works in the wedding industry.. "Every person around me is married."

So, she doesn't want love, a partner, to build a life, a family.. she wants a wedding because everyone else has one.

Global_MGTOW · 2019-09-09T18:36:50+00:00

I like how dating apps suddenly become a joke when you age out of them.

ClockworkOrange92618 · 2019-09-09T18:30:17+00:00

Just like men are not entitled to sex because they are nice to you, women are not entitled to relationships just because they put out.

I would suggest common sense items like switching careers to get away from the wedding industry and setting her standards much lower, but then again if she had common sense she would have married a decent beta by now.

I think I'm kind of decent looking and have my shit together..

I'm sure Billy Beta at age 17 thought he was absolutely worthy of getting laid in high school too. As it turns out though, what counts is if you can sell yourself to your target audience, and your target audience of marriage-minded Chads is moving on to younger pastures.

goodmansaysfuckyou · 2019-09-09T18:30:02+00:00

Always the bride's maid never the bride. Constantly watching the "I do's" but knowing that no one will say it to her. This must be a constant Hell loop of torment to her, reminiscent of Groundhog's Day for the contemporary cock carousel castoff.

BRB--I can't type and laugh at the same time.

TrumpCardStrategy · 2019-09-09T17:55:47+00:00

“I’ve never had problems dating... I don’t feel desirable at the end of the day” lol

[deleted] · 2019-09-09T19:09:57+00:00

What a stupid, post-wall, self-deluding bitch.

Unlike other women, she has multiple examples of the type of women that men marry. She, working in the wedding industry, sees it every day. She sees women getting married who are everything she isn't.

And it's eating her up.

The ultimate cruelty is that she, 100% for sure, had plenty of men in her 20s that she declined. Can't turn back the clock.

Buckle up ladies, when you hit the wall it is gonna be HARD.

OldFashionMarine · 2019-09-09T18:24:48+00:00

Lol......she works in a industry that has a +50% fail rate. Yet she still wants hers....talk about the pressure she would lay on some fool who would date her. GTFO

Logbia7k · 2019-09-09T19:22:51+00:00

She is delusional to think that the average normal guy is on dating-apps. And even if they do, females become masters in ignoring the profiles of those average and nice guys.

Aldabruzzo · 2019-09-09T20:19:22+00:00

If a woman has made it to 30 without anyone asking her for marriage, something went very, very, very wrong. There's a reason for it.

--she didn't prioritize marriage, preferring instead to ride the carousel and party down.

--she's a bitch.

--she's unavailable.

--she's crazy.

--she's physically unattractive or physically sickly.

You should not be marrying at all. But if you do want to marry, do not marry a woman who's reached age 30.

MRMRising · 2019-09-09T21:30:57+00:00

So she works in the wedding industry?

As a RP/MGTOW, nothing makes me happier than when I see a bridal dress store go out of business. It fills my heart with warmth and joy.

SilverGryphon · 2019-09-09T18:33:48+00:00

I think I'm kind of decent looking

We all know that means you are ugly as fuck. Remember, women always over estimate their beauty. So if she is saying that she is "kind of" attractive, she must be really ugly.

thenotoriousdougie · 2019-09-09T22:46:48+00:00

It comes up fast. Women have all the cards up until their mid 20’s the one day they wake up and realize they can’t beat a pair of 2s. By 30 their best years are behind them, by 35 they’re leftovers. It’s the opposite for men. Wine vs milk. Who gets the last laugh??

RealMcGonzo · 2019-09-09T18:34:44+00:00

Dating apps feel like a joke. I've been trying to go out more and it feels like all of the effort I put into that, ends up being wasted or a dead end. . .

. . . because I'm am only interested in the top 2% hotties, just like every other chick.

halflotus2 · 2019-09-09T18:20:14+00:00

That wall hits back doesn’t it?

sean__christian · 2019-09-09T18:19:42+00:00

She almost got there. Almost when she said 'I don't feel desirable' - well if she worked on herself and made her truly desirable then she'd have a good chance of getting a decent guy (provided she knows what a decent guy actually looks like of course!).

But that process would require self-scrutiny, humility and courage - which women seem pretty short of so she's screwed but not in the way she wants.

Chairman_Ellen_Pao · 2019-09-09T20:18:13+00:00

I wish I could get money every time a woman uses the word "amazing".

AliBarakat · 2019-09-10T00:37:29+00:00

Welcome to being an 18 year old guy.

NickTesla2018 · 2019-09-10T00:42:19+00:00

I see it happen all the time. Women are in love with the fairytale wedding itself, but not necessarily the actual person they marry. Once the wedding is over, then they have to face real life. Remember that.

RedPillCoach · 2019-09-10T13:17:36+00:00

Working in a dead industry has managed to kill her dreams.

Sorry dear. Men didn't kill marriage. Women did. Some men even tried to speak up but they were shouted down by almost all the women and their hordes of White Knight slaves.

never had problems "dating"

I always love the euphemisms that girls use. You aren't fooling anybody any more. We know what "dating" means. You have no problem FUCKING. We know. But men don't want the town bicycle after it has been "dating" 100's of guys for 1 1/2 decades.

Also, she doesn't want a 'man.' She wants a wedding. She wants to brag to her friends how she is 'desired' and 'wanted.'

There is a reason men are running from this one.

tysonsmithshootname · 2019-09-09T20:58:20+00:00

Over/under on weight:

O200.5 lbs (-220)

U200.5 lbs (+185)

NotLuceBree · 2019-09-10T21:08:51+00:00

To quote 4chan:

"How fat are you?"

Lucius_Faust · 2019-09-10T15:44:08+00:00

Oooo...hitting the wall feels hard I see. 30 y/o soon to be female, alone, dating around earlier...and even working in wedding industry didn't gave her any revelation.

This is gold

I've never had problems dating, I think I'm kind of decent looking and have my shit together (...)

Doubt that last part.

(...) but then maybe I don't because I don't feel desirable at the end of the day.

She don't feel desired by those Chads she used to date in her early 20ties. When she see the Wall aproaching no one wants to committ to her.

Klown_Kutz · 2019-09-10T12:49:24+00:00

So you want your prom for one?

CarlSpacler · 2019-09-11T20:23:19+00:00

Fairy Tales are REAL!

Thetrvler · 2019-09-16T05:20:57+00:00

In other words, “I want to speed-rush a relationship so I can catch up with other women.”

This is why I say never date a woman over 25.

Title	I can't find someone to take care of me, I have nothing to offer but I deserve LOVE!!!
Author	baiboosar
Upvotes	152
Comments	69
Date	September 9, 2019 5:26 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
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