"I'm 30F and I feel like I'm destined to be alone my whole life...."

Typo-MAGAshiv · 2019-08-31T15:47:36+00:00

I'm 26, and very much in the dating phase in my life, even though I was quite a late bloomer. I only really started dating when I was 24 and I was a virgin until I was 23. It's hard out there even as a decently looking athletic guy

Women have no idea how easy they have it in the dating game. It's not hard to find a guy, especially if you're using online dating or Tinder. You have to just exist. As long as you're not morbidly obese or visually deformed you'll have loads of men vying for your attention. The problem is that their standards are way too high, and this is likely the case with this chick here. She's 30, she won't struggle to find a man in his mid 30's with a decent career and his head screwed on, but because of her inflated ego and high expectations she can't find "the right one".

I don't have much sympathy to give tbh. Even the girls that I've ghosted or stopped speaking to in the past I don't feel that bad for long because they can probably organise a date with a complete new guy in 10 minutes, or less.

DeeplyDisturbed1 · 2019-08-31T15:13:27+00:00

Notice how the Epiphany Phase woman realizes her time is getting short to lock an alpha down, not just to settle down. She is able to get plenty of dates, but none that she is attracted to. She complains not about the lack of good men, but the lack of alpha men. For most men, genuinely missing a woman after the first date is a sign of affection, that he likes where this is headed and is relationship minded. But to the carousel rider, this is just weak beta traits and dries them up completely. They want fun, excitement AND the financial wherewithal to support it all. After a few more years of this, she'll either have made the conscious decision to put on a happy-smile face for her beta 'settled' option or carry herself into the void of spinsterhood. Either way, she is fucked. 30 does not look good on a single woman, except to signal the fuckboys to lock and load for that open-season prancing pussy.

Typo-MAGAshiv · 2019-08-31T15:53:05+00:00

The baffling thing about all these stories is the hoardes of regular guys these women pass up in their 20s to go for all the "wrong guys".

Modernity allows women to choose bad guys without immediate consequence. The consequences come post-wall.

JerryNewton7 · 2019-08-31T16:15:52+00:00

Worst thing is other women don't learn from stories like this. They keep making the same mistakes.

2019-08-31T15:28:00+00:00

Last part rings true. and she will gladly go with all those fuckboys, ignore betas that might genuinely want her. Turn around and ask where all the good men are at while she's sucking away the fuckboys.

2019-08-31T15:49:39+00:00

“On one date, the conversation was like pulling teeth”

The wall strikes again! This lady is effectively screwed, as her past bad decisions entitle her to be.

markus_brutus · 2019-08-31T16:48:36+00:00

Sometimes I feel like I’m in the Matrix in observer mode. I get to see NPCs talk the same, act the same and do the same, like it’s a glitch. It’s kinda funny if you think about it.

I decided long ago that I’m gonna live outside the matrix, so much happier.

Typo-MAGAshiv · 2019-08-31T18:29:00+00:00

"I'm glad I found this sub..."

...because no one will listen to you whine for more than a few minutes IRL?

"...fucked up childhood without any male role models..."

A) oh boy, daddy issues. Chad bait!

B) blame your mother and others from her generation and before for making frivolous divorce way too easy (and even REWARDING) for women who are just unhaaaaaaappy as well as removing a lot of the stigma and dangers of single motherhood. Seriously, have a talk with your mom. Ask her why you didn't grow up in a 2-parent household. The honest answer she won't give you is that she's a slut, and in turn raised you to be one.

[Long story about man she thought was "the one" that left out details about how it ended]

Did he find out about your past? This is important, especially for younger women who might be reading this and can learn from your mistakes.

"...after the first date was texting me things like 'I miss you' and I just didn't appreciate it..."

From Roissy's/Heartiste's 16 Commandments of Poon: "1) never say 'I love you' first... The man who gives his emotional world away too easily robs women of the satisfaction of earning his love..."

Don't get too affectionate too soon, if you're a man. You'll repel her.

Anyway, this woman is likely toast.

cenaluc · 2019-08-31T15:40:02+00:00

eehh, intelligence cannot be bought.....

smallSackBigShaft · 2019-08-31T16:56:07+00:00

She never mentioned why he dumped her ass. She probably did something really fucked up. Or he found out her pussy was a sausage fest jungle gym for his high school bros 3 times a week

Buchwild · 2019-09-01T00:11:49+00:00

She still gets plenty of dates, how is it that NONE of these guys are any good?

MRMRising · 2019-08-31T23:30:26+00:00

LOL, I bet her BF dumped her for a younger and hotter model.

See that ladies, two can play that game.

Flexit4Brexit · 2019-08-31T17:39:34+00:00

She dodged a bullet. He's a real wife batter, batter, batter.

Chairman_Ellen_Pao · 2019-09-01T01:24:39+00:00

They always have excuses for their shitty choices, don't they? Classic.

2019-08-31T22:40:39+00:00

If you are just pretty, you will be alone forever. If you are pretty but more over, wiser, then you will be able to lock an alpha or lock a good guy later on.

user_miki · 2019-09-01T13:15:22+00:00

I never want to get married and that all change once I met him.

She left a lot of information outside.I bet that she(30-31) pressurized the guy for marriage or try to pull some stunt for getting pregnant by "miracle" while under birth control.

Women around 30 are so predictable and at the same time so dangerous for bluegill guys.

moroots · 2019-09-02T03:28:36+00:00

take note of the way this was written. her whole life just kinda sorta happened to her. theres no agency or responsibility in the way she presents herself. no mention of mistakes made and how she is trying to get better

women grow older but they sure as shit dont mature

2019-09-04T12:17:01+00:00

Women are alone by choice; there's enough simps, cucks, and bitches who will settle for less that there's always an option.

stronzorello · 2019-08-31T18:33:11+00:00

What is OLD?

2019-08-31T23:48:37+00:00

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Title	"I'm 30F and I feel like I'm destined to be alone my whole life...."
Author	poetyaright123
Upvotes	152
Comments	55
Date	August 31, 2019 2:42 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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