Summary: Too many weak fools are adapting to woman. (excerpt from my redpill summary notes.)

In most interactions, the weak will automatically adapt to the strong in terms of leadership strength.

Traditionally, a feminine woman would adapt to a masculine man. He would be the solid container and she would be the water immersing herself into his world.

We've become a nation of men who are unwilling or unsuitable as containers, and women who feel entitled to the very best men, even if they have become "polluted" water.

The concept of frame is lost on most men. Thirsty guys, who are willing to adapt to a woman's character and enslave themselves, are everywhere.

Red Pill viewpoint: "There really is something about being in a relationship that seems to take the fire out of men. Once they get a shitty girlfriend, they morph into some kind of half-man half-her sort of being. They seem to lose their independence and individual ambition."

Nowadays, a young man will often lose himself to serve his girlfriend. He drifts away from his circle of friends (or she shuts them out) and he foolishly puts all his commitment eggs in her basket. Tempted by the illusion of security, he becomes softer and more vulnerable.

Despite his weak position and the fact he doesn't wear the trousers in the relationship, he feels better about life than when he was desperately alone, even with all her badgering and the lack of sex. Why? Because it's comfortable. What he doesn't realize his relationship was always built upon shaky ground - her loyalty.

To get the monogamy she wants, she can...

1) Raise her Girl Game to earn his devotion and loyalty. This doesn't happen enough, because too many guys will give away commitment without her earning it. And the guys will work hard to sustain the relationship, instead of putting that on her.

2) Spend time chasing women away and watching her man like a hawk. This isn't where she wants to be. She would rather have a guy on the defensive. One easy way for her to flip the power is to win the frame battle and hold him emotionally hostage with constant drama. If she can have him jumping through hoops to keep her calm and happy, she'll curtail his freedom and eliminate his Dread option.

3) Whittle him down to make him less appealing. This is all too easy. Guys want to relax in a LTR. Given what he wants - food, sex and plenty of couch time - he becomes fat, lazy and contented - becoming half the man he was when he first met her.

Patrice O'Neal on sport fishing: "It's like being a sport fisherman. You go out there and try to catch this fish, and you do. You show it to your friends, take a picture and throw it back in the water.

"Now, your girl in your life -- wife, significant other or whatever -- is a fish that jumped back in the boat after you threw it in the water...

"So now you're dating, and your fish goes, "You love me... Now that you love me, why do you still have your boat? Why do you still have your pole, and all your bait?"

"So, you want me to stop being what I was to get you. What that means is when I stop being what I am, you start to look at me and go, "You ain't even got a boat. That guy has a boat. You used to be this great fisherman...""

A woman eventually comes to despise the weak man she helped to create. So she cheats on him with someone more dominant. The relationship unravels, and out of emotional self-preservation, the women makes it all his fault.

She is a survivor. Social and emotional self-preservation guides her thoughts and actions. To walk away clean, she must destroy the man (emotionally, socially, whatever it takes) and put the blame back on him. Scorched earth, if that's what it takes.

Red Pill viewpoint: "Once the Woman has decided its time to 'move on' to the next partner then you suddenly hear her villainizing you whilst praising him... I've had it happen a few times, she will actually nark at you like you were somehow in the wrong. "Well you tried to hold onto me and hold me back from true love with [insert guys name]."

"They actually start to rewrite the events of your relationship history to make you seem abusive and evil.

"Over time I've learnt that if the ship starts to get a few holes in it you bail overboard as soon as possible. The longer you stay in the sinking ship the worse it will be for you."

To mitigate gossip damage, she'll broadcast her trumped-up victim story early and often. The man is so busy defending himself against lies, the truth of her betrayal is buried.

Society and the law favor her version of the story.

Red Pill viewpoint: "Only women have mental health issues when they behave badly.

"When people break the law, the general rule is this: Men are inherently bad and should go to prison. Women have mental health issues and need help.

"Men's badness is a product of their genes; about which nothing can be done. Women's badness is a product of their environment; about which plenty can be done."

As with any drama, her hostile actions are a smokescreen to divert attention from unpleasant truths. Her ploy works because other women rally to support a damseling woman (along with White Knights). They'll interpret her drama as evidence enough of the man's guilt.

Red Pill man's viewpoint: "Never, ever underestimate the ruthlessness of a woman who's lost her attraction to you.

"It goes far deeper and far colder than a woman who never liked you to begin with. A woman who was attracted to you, then you lost her attraction, feels burned, cheated, raped, used. Like you kept her from her new lover(s) for years, like you were trapping her and holding her back.

"It's hard, if not impossible, for her to remember what it was ever like being attracted to you, or that she ever was. In her mind, you were always a loser, and your relationship was never right. She's already rewritten history, and you're the villain, not the other men, not her. And a long-time loser like you isn't worth two seconds of her time. You wasted enough of her time already."

Red Pill Woman's viewpoint: "She feels that she was robbed. It's similar to that feeling you get after someone shows you a stupid video and you say "That's 5 minutes of my beautiful youth I'm never getting back."

"In her head she forgets any past good times that they had. She sees only his present condition and feels that all previous time spent with him was an investment that just crashed. She wants him at his best, and she is repulsed by him at his average or worse."

Lessons Learned:

A woman craves your masculinity but will strip you of it just to keep other women away. If you let that happen, she will betray you for some guy who acts more masculine like you once did.

Be strong enough that she'll adapt to you.