Raising feral females by Dalrock

Older_Miggy · 2019-06-14T04:39:51+00:00

"It is up to you to combat the might of all these forces and to maintain enough frame so that she will put you above everything and start chasing you."

The juice isn't worth the squeeze anymore. That's just too damn much work for too little reward, and that's also AFTER you think you've found Ms. Right.

Who you might have found after going through dozens, if not hundreds, of dead end women.

No thanks. I'm out.

sleepyweaselisawake · 2019-06-14T10:28:32+00:00

It is up to you to combat the might of all these forces and to maintain enough frame so that she will put you above everything and start chasing you.

Disagree.

It is not a man's responsibility to be the person a woman needs you to be because she will always find faults and chase her emotions.

It is your responsibility to become the kind of man who doesn't give a fuck about what a woman says or does and lives his life with his own happiness in mind.

Velvet_Hammer_ · 2019-06-14T21:44:09+00:00

Notice how when given a chance women would rather rationalize their own choices away over a better life for her kids, even if it means her daughter will have to go through the same meat grinder she had to go through and sustain the same damage.

This is a well-stated summation of the very issue that concerns me the most with the modern woman. You can remove all of the other garnish and field dressings and must still return to this point. If you have experienced the anguish of the YouGoGirl, whore-to-housewife trope, while managing your bastard children along the way, and navigating all of the life obstacles that YOU yourself have placed in your way, how in the hell could one ever wish that same life path upon one's children whom "I love!" and "Are my world!"??? Especially when the only thing holding you back from providing your children this HUGE life advantage is simply being able to say, "I was wrong." I have discovered throughout life that women will never admit that they are wrong unless there is an immediate and substantial benefit to doing so. [They still do not think they were wrong, but only admit it to accrue an advantage.] Affording your children the knowledge from your past mistakes is a substantial benefit, but not an immediate one to be used for personal leverage.

Oh, but if I had a nickel for every time I heard my father, uncles, friends, and male co-workers rue with brutal honesty the mistakes and life choices that they have made in the past! I have never heard this sentiment from a woman. They will divulge terrible scenarios that they were placed in, or manipulated into, but never that they themselves were the actual instrument of the decision to do so. Not from those struggling in life, not from divorcees, not from single mothers, not from addicts, not from one of them. It is always someone else's fault, never a reflection of their poor judgement or lack of impulse control. I think that a very misplaced and unhealthy pseudo-pride is the worst downfall of the modern female, one where wrongdoing can never be admitted to. Following the Pareto Principle, 80% of 'prideful' men actually have a thing or two to be proud of, the other 20% have a misplaced pride. With women, 20% actually have something to be proud of, and the other 80% have a misplaced pride that is simply mischaracterized ego and/or vanity.

Individuals, families, societies, and civilizations have all made poor decisions for centuries, that is the human condition; but more often than not corrections are made by recognizing the error in thinking/behavior and the calendar continues to turn. Those that do not make these corrections simply fade into the dustbin of history, be it individuals or entire civilizations. As almost unforgivable as it is that the modern female has turned on every bedrock principle that has allowed civilization to advance and flourish up to this point, I could still be willing to forgive it as a (grievously) poor decision, that upon constructive evaluation is one that can be corrected back on course. Now, GOTO1. The modern female has no desire, inkling, or necessity yet to admit the error, self-evaluate, and constructively address it. I see only two outs available. One, it is forced back onto them by men, or two, it becomes necessary for them to do so to accrue immediate advantage (the imminent crash of society or the enemy at the gates). Whether men from the West or men from the East, men will eventually force it back onto them; but knowing women, this solution will not be sought by them until the endgame is literally on their doorstep. Modern Western Civilization may collapse, it may not, but either way they will be returned to their biological place. Now, if your children are "My world!" and you "Love them!", would you dare let modern civilization come to the brink of collapse in order to satiate your misplaced pride? If you are a woman you would.

[deleted] · 2019-06-14T15:28:07+00:00

“COMBAT”??

Whose PAYING ME for that level of effort??

If by “COMBAT” you mean to change some woman’s outlook and choices FORGET IT!!

How about instead of that say “BE AWARE, AND BEWARE, AND BE FAIR (to yourself)”.

SamsAdvice · 2019-06-14T17:52:17+00:00

I was just saying this to a friend when a girl was causing drama with me. Its me against her, her friends, everyone who supports, her parents, and who knows who else. It felt so exhausting to maintain frame. I was ready for her to end things, just to have some relief off my shoulders. The fact that I was ready for it to end and happy to walk away while remaining calm and instead of bending at the knee and proving myself or explaining myself, is what caused her to comeback around and end the drama and start acting sweet again.

CiceroVoltaire · 2019-06-22T14:26:40+00:00

in modern society only men's natural instincts are constrained, women's natural instincts are not only allowed, they're encouraged, and enabled by the courts and government.

what was once the elevated way of the warrior, scholar, philosopher, monk, statesman, etc., has been replaced with the debased way of the thot. Glubb's essay, "Fate of Empires" posits one of the common attributes in the Age of Decadence, "An increase in the influence of women in public life has often been associated with national decline."

the balance will be restored, but it will take collapse, devastation, destruction, famine, disease, death, slavery, a new dark age and return of hard patriarchy.

edit: grammar

DeeplyDisturbed1 · 2019-06-14T09:07:13+00:00

Excellent post. I just wrote a piece that gives a somewhat scientific angle to this sort of conversation. Women often act this way because of their level of cognitive development.

Spoiler: They cannot help themselves.

houseoftolstoy · 2019-06-17T14:23:15+00:00

What they didn’t understand was the girls were dressing like hookers because society wasn’t putting any pressure on them.

This statement is bolded for a very good reason, as it really drives home the fundamental problem with the SMP. Women are not being told that they should change their behavior when they dress and act like (and simply are) sluts. In fact we have people who will ironically shame anyone who tells women that they should not be sluts; slut-shamer shamers as I put it.

This is exactly why spaces like this one need to exist, as it at least provides some push back to the lack of shaming of badly behaving women. Society already shames bad men, so a little counterbalance is certainly not unreasonable. In fact there should be more holding feet to the fire, and not just online.

Newbosterone · 2019-06-16T16:28:31+00:00

Not that Dalrock’s essay is eight years old; that’s almost half a generation.

Title	Raising feral females by Dalrock
Author	moorekom
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Date	June 14, 2019 4:09 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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