How healthy is TRP?

edwardhwhite · 2015-07-18T18:40:06+00:00

I just don't click on posts I don't like.

Saiserit · 2015-07-18T18:16:24+00:00

This could probably be its own post, but here is two cents from a zen trainee..

Stress is a sign that you need to reduce stress: fix the shit which is on your mind and stressing you out. The old Buddhist flowchart goeth: (Can you potentially fix it or make it any better? If Yes, Do it Now, If No, Chalk up a win for Impermanence and move on.)

Boredom is a sign that you need to have fun: Go fuck around doing something which brings you some joy (in accordance with a reasonable budget for you)

Loneliness is a sign that you need more people in your life. Go find people who aren't total dicks to you.

Keep in mind, everyone has a different tolerance and breaking point for each of these depending on their values. When I first took the pill back in November, I quickly realized about myself: I will either drink and drug myself to fucking death, achieve my unusual goals, or get crippled/die early from some random unlucky bullshit. For me, one of those three things WILL happen. There is no question. What about you?

HappyScribe · 2015-07-18T18:52:32+00:00

I don't know if you're being serious or concern trolling.

Why wouldn't you camera up? In that thread it saved the OP from losing his home. Yes he was venting, but it was a good example. It is only after repeated examples that some of us will believe that AWALT.

The anger stage is a necessary part of the Red Pill. Taking basic precautions (never being alone with a woman without some sort of witness) is another stage. The most unhealthy thing you can do is not take the pill and carry on believing the world is a lovely place filled with rainbows and unicorns.

LeeBarbs · 2015-07-18T18:53:38+00:00

That gentleman you speak of is by and far not the only one to be lucky enough to be saved by tech.

My ex wife tried getting me arrested an hour before a custody hearing by lying to the police. Taking them I hit her. I locked her out of my mom's house. Their was no physical contact at all.

The officer arrived at my house and I invited him inside. That puts you at the advantage even when speaking to the authorities. He said she has "marks" on her arms. I said she must have fine that to herself. Of course she did is all he said. He didn't believe me. I could hear the hand cuffs.

I remembered that she had been positively blowing my phone up. I mean 20 to 50 messages a minute ( get phone could copy and paste whole messages rapid fire. It was always either just "hey" or some derogatory term. I showed him. I told him to scroll up. His eyes just got bigger and bigger.

He handed me my phone back told me he was sorry for disturbing me but he had to follow up. I told him it was no problem and to have a good day.

You should have seen get face when I walked into court. She expected me to be in jail. Priceless.

TL;DR - Girls lie to get their way. The hamster spins to justify it. Tech can save your ass.

MentORPHEUS · 2015-07-18T19:56:36+00:00

TRP is VERY healthy once you've learned and internalized a large body of the knowledge base.

Like a martial art, it tends to be most dangerous to newbies who learn a few lessons and become overconfident, thus proactively screw up in their interactions with others. Hence the Fight Club rule #1- do NOT talk about TRP. Only when deeply internalized can you know when and how to guide others on the path, and have the perception to calibrate your behavior to each unplugged individual.

Its a broad tent for men in various stages of unplugging and various life stages. Like a smorgasbord, each individual should take what they need/want at a given time and leave the rest for others.

Soriq · 2015-07-18T21:28:59+00:00

it is what caused me to think about whether we're just worrying too much and getting a little paranoid/freaked out.

That's what you took away from that post? what if he didn't camera up? He'd be fucked

ThePedanticF0x · 2015-07-18T22:02:16+00:00

Its up to you if you want to take the chance or not. Personally I think the "camera up" is merited.

I had a girl stab herself in the leg to keep me from breaking up with her, guess what the paramedics suspected when they arrived. One escorted me away out of my out residence to interrogate me, meanwhile I could hear the other trying to coerce the crazy bitch into saying that I stabbed her. Through the grace of all that is holy she told the truth. All this to keep me from leaving her. Could have used a few drop cams.

dbtng · 2015-07-18T23:51:00+00:00

You need to go to / r / mensrights. They like your sort of whining.

Sepean · 2015-07-18T18:38:09+00:00

"Luckily" I'm married, but with how crazy my wife is about me now and how she'd react if I left her, I can only imagine the sort of emotional fallout the guys spinning plates have to deal with on a regular basis, with all the girls getting refused commitment and nexted.

absolucion · 2015-07-18T23:57:47+00:00

Stories like the one you bring up are a cautionary tale to all guys out there. There is tons of knowledge to be picked up from it. "Watch you back." "Protect your assets." "Looks can be deceiving." If you yourself don't want to cam up then simply don't. But don't chalk up camming up as paranoia.

Those of us who drive cars have to get car insurance. In the seven years I've been driving, I've never needed it. I'm a very cautious driver. But I pay it willingly knowing that if anything happens, I've protected myself and my asset. My girlfriend got rearended last winter while waiting a stop light. Nothing she could do. But having insurance as well as being at an intersection with cameras enabled her to get a new car for nothing.

Title	How healthy is TRP?
Author	ndpete13
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Comments	14
Date	July 18, 2015 5:58 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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