Hello gentlemen, first and foremost i would like to tell you a bit about myself, im 23,living in the SF Bay Are, divorced, and 2 years into TRP.

I would like to open a discussion with something that I have a bit of trouble with, I married at the age of 20 and divorced a year and a half later. No kids, no alimony, she took all the debt, i basically got away for free. Now here I am, 23 spinning several plates totally killing it in life, most of the people that i am around know about my divorce yet neither I or anyone else mentions anything about it. Yesterday I was with my sister, her husband, and my main plate when i accidentally called my plate my-ex wifes name. keep in mind that she does not know i am divorced, as far as shes concerned I've only had short term relationships and mainly sees me as asshole player Alpha Chad. Her face and attitude changed immediately after my ex-wifes name fell out of my mouth. she questioned me about it and in my signature IDGAF attitude, i just told her it was my ex-wifes name and laughed it off. she began to cry and tell me she felt like she didn't know who i was and asking me why i would hide such an important part of my life from people. i just told her that was the old me and that part of me is no longer alive, it's dead and never to be seen again. long story short, she stuck around till the end of the night and we fucked like rabbits, she came several times, took her home before going to work. I've gotten to know this girl pretty well, i wouldn't be surprised if I don't her from her ever again.

back to my dilemma: do you tell people that you are divorced? I dont, however it is a lot of work trying to constantly remind myself to keep from saying things that may give me away. i might just tell my plates about from this point forward. what is your experience? I would like to hear your experiences and advise.

-The Americano