If women really want to know the truth why men today will not marry today? Read the article.

Weltschmerz5000 · 2018-09-09T19:07:18+00:00

Pretty much. Why sign a legal contract promising half my assests and custody of my children to a person who is statistically more likely than not to intitiate a divorce? There's literally nothing in it for me.

holidaysboots · 2018-09-09T19:20:05+00:00

Women don't marry men anymore. They marry the government. The initiative is complete and men have been second class citizens for some time now. Now the vultures are up to pick the fucking bones of anyone who dares to be opposition or a non-conformist to the status quo.

shrinkshooter · 2018-09-09T19:43:56+00:00

This question has been asked, exponentially more often, for a decade now. The reality remains the same: women most of the time aren't actually interested in the real answer. They seriously ask the question "where have all the good men gone" and "why are so many men afraid of commitment" not because they're actually interested in discovering the phenomenon responsible for causing these things, but to posit these queries to their female peers so they might achieve validation or have their fears assuaged. "There's nothing wrong with me, right? There's nothing wrong with this extremely gynocentric system of family law, right? Modern men are just pansies who are afraid of commitment, aren't they? That's the real reason, isn't it?"

Few women genuinely seek the actual, multi-variable explanations to such questions. And really, finding the answer is not all that difficult.

Pastelitomaracucho · 2018-09-09T20:28:07+00:00

Sex became easily available and women don't depend on men to raise families. The role of men as provider is gone.

No pressure to become a provider + no pressure to make sacrifices to access sex = men just don't give a fuck anymore.

I love it.

p0rnpop · 2018-09-09T23:14:14+00:00

Decades ago marriage use to be an exchange of commitment for sex. But that is now broken. The man is legally enforced to give his commitment, even after divorce, while the woman is free to not have sex at all. This is in addition to the desirable men no longer having to commit for sex, they can get it by spending a few minutes on tender. This has resulted in men being in one of two groups. Those who get sex without marriage, and those who can't even rely on marriage for sex. Once you account for a legal system that will force a man into giving his commitment even after a marriage fails, there is simply no reason for men to get married.

TheYekke · 2018-09-09T22:28:16+00:00

Economics is just a fancy way of describing a whole number of supply and demand scenarios. So let’s walk through the ones she throws out: 1. When women want a husband, they can’t find one. Well, if you meant an 18 year old woman, that would be odd, but you never mentioned a reference age, so I took a look at the UK stats and the median woman is 30.3 y/o at marriage And the man 33.3. Ouch. Wall hitter marries a man who is about to hit his SMV peak. WTF? Small wonder marriages are way down, she passed the marriage zone (27-29).

Sex is easy to get. BS for men for sure. Sex is easy to get for women, so why commit to one dick, exactly
There is nothing in it for men. Hmm, should have started with that.

houseoftolstoy · 2018-09-10T15:06:53+00:00

Another detail that should be considered: women are getting worse by the year and are demanding more. What makes marriage special if she has already had a slew of sexual partners, was the type of woman who ignored you her 20s and now expects you to accept her when she has less options, and she is unwilling to be feminine for their husbands?

What everyone needs to understand about marriage is that if you want men to be willing to marry, they need a better deal. Get rid of no fault divorce so that a woman won't be able to initiate a divorce due to bullshit reasoning such as "falling out of love," "I'm unhappy," or the minimum number of years for her to get full cash and prizes benefits has been reached and now she can get his resources without even being married to him. I thought that marriage vows were meant to signify that it was a lifetime commitment, not an agreement that can be broken based on flimsy excuses. But I guess that "till death do us part" means "unless I don't feel like it anymore," and "for better or worse" means "any little thing wrong means it's over."

On that note, get rid of alimony altogether, and perhaps even child support (or at least reform it so that there is some checks and balances in place). Feminists claim that they are for equality, but they fight every attempt to curtail alimony, so you know they are full of it.

The men are not the problem. They are acting according to their best interests, so don't blame them for protecting themselves from a rigged system. Fix marriage first.

ummyourdaddy · 2018-09-09T19:25:52+00:00

simple. there aren't enough christian greys in the world.

where_muh_good_mens · 2018-09-09T21:52:32+00:00

Why buy the milk, when I can suck the udders for free, or drink almond milk if it's always sour otherwise.

chosen-mimes · 2018-09-09T22:11:45+00:00

That‘s the catch. They don‘t want to know and most that do want to know reject the truth because it‘s not nice.

TANQspray · 2018-09-10T11:08:16+00:00

Only thing I don’t agree with is the first point. There will always be sluts. There will always be hookers. Guys weren’t getting married just to get laid. They wanted a family and it wasn’t a massive fucking risk to do so. If a woman got pregnant randomly while not being married it was on her, and she was shamed too, it didn’t completely fuck the mans life up with child support for 18 years.

Rest of the article is 100% why guys aren’t getting married. The lawmakers make soyboy feminist decisions and expect everyone to go along with it like they can’t think for themselves.

ransay3277 · 2018-09-10T02:32:49+00:00

Pretty much spot on.

Songgeek · 2018-09-10T18:04:18+00:00

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Title	If women really want to know the truth why men today will not marry today? Read the article.
Author	NihilisticMGTOW
Upvotes	76
Comments	33
Date	September 9, 2018 6:56 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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