Just another, "Tired of hook up culture" post.

ClockworkOrange92618 · 2018-07-13T14:55:49+00:00

I feel the hook up culture and being "open minded" has made it near impossible to find a guy my age who's ready for a committed relationship

Women like you typically only have one thing to offer (sex), and you seem to want to give it away freely to Chad. Chad, however, gets all the sex he wants from all kinds of women, and has no interest in committing to any of them. You were dumb enough to throw away your only bargaining chips; don't be surprised that nobody wants to make deals with you anymore

Where does one find their "person" these days? Any ideas?

Usually people are best off finding them in their early 20's. Better dust off that flux capacitor..

[deleted] · 2018-07-13T14:38:56+00:00

That biological clock is a mo fo

[deleted] · 2018-07-13T14:28:06+00:00

Tired of hook up culture that gave her so many "tingles" in the past. Can you imagine being married to someone like this! She'll be tired of everything except money and an easy life in the end. And even then if you are a beat bux she'll be bitter because you didn't give her the "tingles". No win scenario. Just stay well clear.

Griever114 · 2018-07-13T18:18:20+00:00

I would love a collection of sayings from each stage of a girls life leading up to and after the wall:

18-24:

I'm not ready to settle down

Enjoying my wild side

Looking for adventure

He is an asshole but I cant exain why I'm attracted to him. He is unemployed, drinks and does drugs but I cant say no!

Nah, I didnt sleep with him. He was a NICE GUY. I never found myself attracted to him. He is taking all these stupid masters courses and doesnt have money.

25-30:

I'm tired of the dating/bar scene

Dont want meaningless hookups

All my friends are married and have kids and this upsets me. Dont know why

Why is it so hard to find a NICE GUY.

30-35:

I'm going back to church to be BORN AGAIN.

All my friends are going on their 3rd kid and dont have time for me anymore

I just want to settle down. WHERE ARE ALL THE GOOD MEN.

35-40

I'm so happy at home with my cats

4gotOldU-name · 2018-07-13T18:02:32+00:00

Well, at least she's not "Sex Positive", and expecting her new man to do porn with her.

There's always that...

AllahHatesFags · 2018-07-13T14:09:10+00:00

Reminds me of the "Drive-thru Boyfriends" post.

frikabg · 2018-07-13T17:05:42+00:00

I refuse to “lessen” the quality of my future partner to speed up the process. The things I want in a partner are less about vanity and more about character and that’s something I refuse to bend on.

Then:

When did I ever say that I’m “chasing after the most attractive guys”? I love how everyone is assuming I’m looking for a male model with all disregard for anything else other than looks. What I’m saying is I would like to find someone, around my age that I get along with, find attractive, that is also looking for the same Things as me. Attraction has to be there, mutual attraction- that’s what sets it apart from a normal “friendship” but that attraction is built from many things not just looks, but personality, how they treat other people, character.

This sub is fun.

Wolfoflulzstreet · 2018-07-13T18:02:31+00:00

Hold on...I speak female. I can translate:

I’m a 28f and the dating scene is a disaster IMO.

I'm getting tired of all this sex. I'm 28 my baby alarm is going off

I feel the hook up culture and being “open minded” has made it near impossible to find a guy my age who’s ready for a committed relationship.

I've been a complete whore since I was 16 and have had literally countless penises in and out of every one of my orifices. Guys seem to have a problem with how many thousands of penises have crossed my lips. Guys my age are dating girls 10 years younger than I am and I don't quite understand.

Dating apps lead to a bunch of lose ends,

It's unclear on these dating apps just how rich the guy is and while the free meals are nice I'd really like to just fine a rich checkbook, uh, guy to settle down with. my baby alarm is going off too.

meeting people out isn’t as easy as it sounds, so where does one find their “person” these days? Any ideas?

Again, I just need to get to the rich guys already, my vagina feels tired and I still want to have my babies so I can stop having sex altogether. Wish this millionaire would show himself already. My baby alarm is going off

KingRobotPrince · 2018-07-13T16:53:15+00:00

I feel the hook up culture and being “open minded” has made it near impossible to find a guy my age who’s ready for a committed relationship.

Why in the name of God would a 28 year old guy want to wife a 28 year old woman who's just starting to get tired of riding the CC? He could find a 20 year old who never wanted to hook-up and is looking to settle down and offers less baggage, a younger body and a less bitter used up attitude.

lorum_ipsum_dolor · 2018-07-13T17:14:58+00:00

"meeting people out isn’t as easy as it sounds"

Chad doesn't approach me anymore.

TomahawkSuppository · 2018-07-13T16:17:01+00:00

The wall is approaching and princess looks around and on Facebook and all her friends are pairing off, pre-baby rabies phase.

ThePlague · 2018-07-13T16:28:26+00:00

the-captain is fucking slaying it.

cycloneous · 2018-07-13T16:51:42+00:00

I’m a 28f and the dating scene is a disaster IMO. I feel the hook up culture and being “open minded” has made it near impossible to find a guy my age who’s ready for a committed relationship. Dating apps lead to a bunch of lose ends, meeting people out isn’t as easy as it sounds, so where does one find their “person” these days? Any ideas?

Let us analyze this poor soul. . . shall we?

I’m a 28f and the dating scene is a disaster IMO.

Sorry to report to you, but many people are actually finding success in the dating scene. So your opinion is moot, so one begs to question, what is it that you are doing to attract men. Plus, ask yourself, what is it that you have to offer to the table that would attract a man?

I feel the hook up culture and being “open minded” has made it near impossible to find a guy my age who’s ready for a committed relationship.

Hook up culture?! Eh? Where are you getting this nonsense from? Cosmopolitan? Plus, I am curious, where is it that you are trying to find a good quality man? Have you tried going to social events, joining a gym, karate, or places with like minded people that you can meet AND socialize with in person? I doubt it. . .

Dating apps lead to a bunch of lose ends, meeting people out isn’t as easy as it sounds, so where does one find their “person” these days?

If you need a "dating app" to help you with your social life and meeting people, then frankly you have failed as a human being. It really isn't all that hard to meet people. Go to church, join a race, a karate school. I mean, seriously, this isn't f'ing rocket science. I have a question for you, what f'ing millenial rock have you been living under that you lack basic social skills to meet people?!

Verdict

Avoid at all costs, seriously, she lacks socializing skills to meet people and probably needs an app that tells her on how to wipe her own ass!

TheYekke · 2018-07-13T19:09:56+00:00

If you have to resort to reddit to fix your life issues things are way way worse than imagined. Your mother, sister, niece/cousin, coworkers etc are your fallback, available in a pinch, yet none are available now....hmmm. Introspection lesson 1: 1. When things can’t go on, they don’t 2. What is temporary long enough will eventually feel as if it is permanent, until it vanishes. Youth is a bitch, you’re born with it but lose it exponentially faster past 23. 3. Past mistakes if not undone will pile up with interest 4. Any market eventually clears out. Any distorted market eventually reverts to the mean, the more distorted the faster 5. Buyers in the end determine price not sellers. Women are sellers, men are buyers

4gotOldU-name · 2018-07-13T18:06:07+00:00

Here's an epiphany for y'all future visiting victims of this sub:

You're broken logic and personality works in bars and dating apps temporarily. Come to Reddit with that shit and you'd better be prepared to get slayed -- not laid, paid or pitied.

Omnibrad · 2018-07-13T13:44:11+00:00

Where is the issue here? She doesn’t say she hooks up, just that she doesn’t like the hookup culture. I can’t stand the hookup culture either. I don’t engage in it because I can’t stand it. Don’t y’all on this sub also not like the hookup culture because it promotes hypergamy in your view? I must be missing something.

Cursedpurpose · 2018-09-03T08:28:29+00:00

Classic Faustian deal. For 10 years, from age 18-28 they have unlimited options and can live their lives on easy mode engaging in carnal pleasure to the point of obscenity. Once the term is over, Father Time (thot patrol) stretches forth his scythe and reaps her soul. Eternal damnation awaits. They unwittingly made this deal when they took their first selfie at 18 (for legal purposes of course) when trolling for attention.

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