Well, initially I was disgusted with him. I had to be shit drunk to even kiss him. When we used to do it, I just used to just look at the wall clock and countdown until this could all get over

TANQspray · 2018-06-15T09:05:43+00:00

They’re attracting what their looks can attract.

If they found someone better he would either not be interested or wouldn’t commit because he himself could do better.

She also focus’s on characteristics women look for when describing her friends. Looks is what matters. Feminism can’t overcome biology.

moorekom · 2018-06-15T09:43:52+00:00

//I asked her “How do you feel turned on with him” she answered “Well, initially I was disgusted with him. I had to be shit drunk to even kiss him. When we used to do it, I just used to just look at the wall clock and countdown until this could all get over. But we have been together now for 2 years and while I still dont find him attractive, i truly love him and can’t live without him because he takes care of me so much”, and then came the exact similar line “You know he loves me, he is responsible, he makes good money, he will still love me when i put on 40 pounds when i have my baby , and it will be stupid to let all these great things go in the quest for better genetics”.//

//My standards aren’t entirely conventional, I like masculine and hairy men, but i think I should throw these standards in the dustbin and only concentrate on qualities like kindness, earning potential, commitment, his love for me and character. I am just afraid how my mental health will be if I ll feel like I am getting raped while being intimate with this person.//

Eventhough she's willing to compromise on her "standards", she wants someone to convince her otherwise. You cannot negotiate desire. And anything that includes the description of settling/compromising/potential and especially rape is a huge red flag. Also notice that if it's not sex with someone she's attracted to, it's rape. Not regret. The lack of self accountability in women is just astounding even if you've come to expect it.

KingRobotPrince · 2018-06-15T09:52:27+00:00

They seem to think that they should be with someone tall, fit body, great personality, qualified, good job, serious about relationship, etc.

What makes them think they should get everything perfect in a guy?

I don't believe that men have these same high expectations. It's like every man believing he can get a model hot, ripped, educated, kind and accommodating, excellent mother material, barely any number count, submissive woman who will do whatever he wants in the bedroom.

It's a nice idea, but I think we know how realistic that is for the average man.

I think these women are going to end up alone, if they keep holding out for literally the perfect man.

Kid_Dragneel · 2018-06-15T13:04:24+00:00

I’m disgusted that “earning potential” is even a fucking quality.

VoxVirilis · 2018-06-15T14:26:05+00:00

My standards aren’t entirely conventional, I like masculine and hairy men

That's pretty conventional. Classic case of "I'm not like other girls" when she's exactly like other girls.

I am just afraid how my mental health will be if I ll feel like I am getting raped while being intimate with this person.

Rape is no longer about consent. Even if she consciously consents but her lizard brain isn't subconsciously attracted to him, then its rape. Or at least "feel like ... getting raped".

sleepyweaselisawake · 2018-06-15T12:01:18+00:00

You have to ask yourself.. do you want to be a provider.. or do you want to be the guy whose cock she swallows like an addict? Choose carefully.

berreae · 2018-06-15T09:23:00+00:00

This should be actually brightening. Girl is questioning her standards.

cycloneous · 2018-06-15T13:41:12+00:00

I used to day dream of my prince charming, but I am getting a reality check.

Translation: Hollywood, Oprah, & Co. sold me on a bill of goods, aka a fantasy, that doesn't exist and fails the reality test. Now I must actually admit the truth, accept reality not every good man looks like Prince Charming.

Verdict

Avoid this delusional Cunt-asaurus Rex at all costs!

NoMoreMrNiceGuy47 · 2018-06-15T19:22:29+00:00

From the top comment:

"When I fell in love with my husband (at the age of 30), I was in a semi-serious relationship with a very kind, intelligent, well-off man from a good family. Everything else was perfect, but the sex was non-existing. He had a low sex drive, and I just didn't find him sexually attractive.

So when this tall, dark man with broad shoulders walked into my life, I fell head over heels in love with him. It was like a vacuum inside me that just sucked in all that sex appeal.

I did it as tidily as I could, broke up politely and neatly before advancing anywhere with the Adonis."

She was extremely lucky to "trade up" around the time she hit the wall at the age of 30. It's very interesting to see how she describes her ex, basically a nice guy with good personality that promised economic and social stability but lacking in looks. Maybe he had a low sex drive because she never initiated, as she never found him attractive to have sex. That would certainly increase his sex drive, to be desired by his significant other in the most primal of ways, but I digress.

On the other hand, the description of the new guy is very much physical, that gave her tingles. Everything else seems unimportant compared to that. His financial status, personality, background, etc. are all inconsequential enough to mention. These pale in comparison to the tingles he provided. This comment is basically saying act upon your hypergamous nature.

The more I read about such threads and women "settling", the closer I get to MGTOW everyday. Because regardless of your accomplishments, one's looks will always triumph personality. And you will always be relegated to a provider while the woman you've married is resentful of things you have no control over.

BoskOfPortKar · 2018-06-15T15:18:12+00:00

This is so ROMANTIC !

Haaaaa .... Loooveeee ....

I pity all those doormats. Even Chads who married were subject to such romantic screenings... then cheated on...

SilverGryphon · 2018-06-15T21:31:48+00:00

Red Pilled Women...ugh that sub is utter and pure bullshit. How the hell TRP ever allowed such a sub to exist in their community is beyond me.

Narcissist456 · 2018-06-16T00:25:11+00:00

When will these dumb thots realize that the BEST THEY COULD EVER DO is the guy who’s willing to commit to them? Just because some 9/10 Chad looking motherfucker used her as a cum tissue for a couple of nights doesn’t mean shit. THAT SAYS NOTHING AT ALL ABOUT HER ATTRACTIVENESS. I’ve seen plenty Brad Pitt lookalikes hook up with Roseanne lookin bitches after the party’s over.

BluepillProfessor · 2018-06-17T16:48:15+00:00

what does settling mean to you? Did you have to compromise your standards of attractiveness to the point of disgust ?

By no means darling! Simply settle low enough so that you don't care whether you have sex with him. At that standard you can control him completely for the rest of his life by playing the titillate, deny, and punish game.

hapacel · 2018-06-15T14:19:25+00:00

Title completely taken out of context, she's quoting her sister

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