Why don't men in their 30s like women in their 30s?

SilverGryphon · 2018-03-25T19:29:16+00:00

I'm in my 30's and I don't mind dating women in their 30's. However it's really hard to find women of such an age that don't have kids and are not land whales.

After all I'm a thin and childless man so I deserve a thin and childless woman. I'm not even expecting her to be more than a 5-6.

The only decent women in that age bracket are still chasing chad.

enjoy_life88 · 2018-03-25T20:30:30+00:00

Why don't women want men their same age when they're 20

CompletelyIncorrect0 · 2018-03-25T19:45:05+00:00

Men age like wine. Women age like milk.

TheWretchedMass · 2018-03-25T20:45:01+00:00

You get less fertile with age.
The longer you are single, the more your "sex and the city" entitled bitch attitude gets cemeted, the harder it will be to convert you into a serious LTR prospect. The more likely you've developed character flaws which are black flag faults that can never be corrected or compensated for.
Younger women have years of youth and good looks ahead of them. Your looks will drop off a cliff sooner.
The longer you are single the more likely promiscuity has ruined any chance of a meaningful sexual relationship between us.

SirKolbath · 2018-03-26T01:41:26+00:00

In my experience, I look for younger women because most of the ones my age and close to it are arrogant, loud mouthed, out of shape failures. You're 41 and looking for a man? What happened to the last five you had? Women initiate more than 80% of all breakups, including something like 83% of all divorces. Where were you going when you abandoned the last man who loved you?

weebkilla · 2018-03-25T22:10:43+00:00

Honestly? Finding a woman in her 30s that either doesn't have kids already (a relationship no-go for most single guys), isn't just getting off the cock-carousel, or isn't so undesirable that she never even got a ticket to ride the carousel... is like trying to find a needle in a haystack.

The ones who may not have been CC riders are usually 'career' women. Which means they wasted their youth chasing career/school/achievement and either aren't interested in a serious relationship with family as a goal or are far too interested in it (and stomping on the pedal because they want it WAY too fast as they wasted too many years).

SO much easier to just stick with the younger girls who you might catch before they are full-blown CC riders, or avoid if they are the 'career focused' ones.

sleepyweaselisawake · 2018-03-25T18:20:26+00:00

i would realy like to know what all the [deleted] were

tarekhassan · 2018-03-25T22:50:21+00:00

I really wonder, who would ask this question!

Women themselves know this well, younger girls look way better, they know it already.

So why would a man prefer a 30s woman to 20s if you (every woman) already know that the younger the girl the more likeable from men?

moorekom · 2018-03-25T20:47:38+00:00

Lack of effort or appreciation from her part.

stringedbeams · 2018-03-26T02:53:08+00:00

it's a shame they allow ignorance of biology to persist even while supposedly pushing all this great "higher education" on the population

DaphneDK42 · 2018-03-26T06:59:57+00:00

Hardly rocket science: firmer tits, firmer asses and firmer pussies.

PathToTheLight · 2018-03-25T23:28:33+00:00

That notaquitteryo ho hella hamstering lmao

ButtsMacGillacuty · 2018-03-26T19:38:48+00:00

Why don't women in their 20's like short ugly men poor men lol.

[deleted] · 2018-03-26T15:58:08+00:00

Whenever a woman asks the question "why don't you like [insert category of woman here]", that means:

"Why don't you want to commit to/marry [insert category of woman here]?" Because "like" or "want" to a woman means commitment and marriage.

Falls under the categories:

"I don't know what men are sexually attracted to."

"I know what men are sexually attracted to, but I don't want to admit that I don't have it."

"I know what men are sexually attracted to, and they are bad, evil men for being attracted to it."

Men in their 30s do like women in their 30s. They are willing to have sex with attractive women in their 30s. They just don't want to marry or commit to attractive women in their 30s.

brettdavis4 · 2018-03-30T21:02:54+00:00

The thing that scares me about women in their 30s, is how they are in a rush to get in a relationship then marriage and then motherhood.

Some of these women might be the last single person in their group of friends and they feel like they have to play catch up.

warlocc_ · 2018-04-10T10:11:52+00:00

I think lots of men in their 30's like women in their 30's.

What I don't think is that men still single in their 30's are attracted to a bitter old whore that's going to make him pay for someone else's kids.

[deleted] · 2018-03-26T14:15:19+00:00

The drawback I run into is anyone around here over about 30 who's on a dating website has at least 1 kid, usually 3 or 4, and that's a pain in the ass to plan around/have any kind of real connection. You'll never be the most important person to them, you'll always be second, third, fourth, maybe even not in the top 10 important

Newsflash....if you find a woman with no kids, marry her, and start a family; as soon as the first baby arrives you will cease to be the most important person to her.

JohnQPubliq · 2018-03-26T01:40:59+00:00

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thearmchairwarrior · 2018-04-05T02:43:25+00:00

If you're looking to reproduce and have a family don't' bother dating women over 25. Too many miles. Too much mental baggage etc....

Younger models are always better.

[deleted] · 2018-03-26T17:37:43+00:00

Better question: Why not?

SoulLess-1 · 2018-03-27T19:23:35+00:00

You don't have to worry about them judging you by 30 year old standards like having your shit together. 19 year olds are impressed if you buy them Crown Russe.

Couldn't believe the person who wrote this is supposedly a guy.

NabunagasRevenge · 2018-03-28T01:27:41+00:00

I know ive seen it before and ill see again young Nabunagasrevenge will you be my man - Too Short

YesICanWhoopUrAss · 2018-03-29T13:38:15+00:00

damn Damn DAMN why is all the good replies DELETED!?

cezariobirbiglio · 2018-04-13T06:38:38+00:00

women in their 30s don't look as good as women in their 20s and when your in your 30s you can date young women with no problem. I would and have dated women my age and older. One who was in her early 30s was in baby fever like Id never seen before. She was determined to find someone who would provide for her and her unborn child. I noped out of that one with the quickness.

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