How do you plate an ex?

PachoHerrera0 · 2020-03-08T10:46:09+00:00

Move on son

ChadBreeder1 · 2020-03-08T10:41:06+00:00

Iron Rule of Tomassi #7 will tell you exactly how to do that!

Rkingpin · 2020-03-08T11:14:05+00:00

Why would u want to

dzkkne · 2020-03-08T11:22:00+00:00

Man, this is not some magic pill. Use common sense: you plate an ex when you don’t care about her as much as she does care for you. You continue having sex with her and only meet up for sex and she is fine with that.

Why it’s hard? Because it is rare situation when you are not invested emotionally and genuinely don’t care if she moves on or hangs out with other guys. The problem is that if you are faking it you are going to cause your self a great deal mental struggle and wasted energy when you constantly try to battle your feelings for her and have to put a lot of effort in to maintaining your frame with her.

Conclusion, the reason having an ex as a plate is commonly regarded as a bad decision is because it is very rarely a good option and involves too much effort as opposed to pursuing new opportunities. Most of the time guys who have no other options talk themselves in to this and turn it in to a shit show.

Lostfate09 · 2020-03-08T11:37:25+00:00

Just move on bro.

AresLudovisi · 2020-03-08T14:44:08+00:00

I need you to be extremely honest with yourself.

If your LTR was a 5, can you regularly smash 6s? If your LTR was a 6, can you regularly smash 7s? If your LTR was an 8 or 9, forget about it.

Reason being: you don't like her now. But she will be on her best behavior to lure you back in. You absolutely need to have strong incentive to not want her back in your life full-time. If you cannot answer a 100%, affirmative yes with no hesitation to what I said above--you are not at the level where you are above being sucked back in. Trust me. I must have seen this happen 42525252x to everyone I know, including myself. You are not above the millions of men to come before you. You share 99.9% of our DNA. Learn from us.

However, if you are genuinely above caring, go for it. There's no harm done. The overwhelming odds are that you are not at that level. Really, truthfully examine it and give it some thought. Do you really think you are 1 in 100? Only you know. Nobody on an internet forum does.

pilot333 · 2020-03-08T20:45:50+00:00

It’s really difficult.

You can only do it if you were the one that broke up with her. If you got dumped like 90% of the beta faggots then you can’t plate her.

Unlikely_Composer · 2020-03-08T21:17:23+00:00

You don’t.

Vouch33r · 2020-03-08T12:21:01+00:00

You don't. Thanks for coming to my TED talk. Sidebar u dumbass

Title	How do you plate an ex?
Author	AresLudovisi
Upvotes	0
Comments	18
Date	March 8, 2020 10:27 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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